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how do i go about doing this?

i was close friends with someone for years, then recently she started blanking me and not talking to me as much and ignoring me. just generally being nasty. she however refused to tell me why she was ignoring me until now. she says whatever she tells me i go and tell everyone. its like ive lost her trust. i dont go blabbing everything abt her but i do sometimes have a big mouth...only about little things. well how do i go about getting her trust back??

Reply 1

i know its by keeping my mouth shut and all but what if that doesnt work? what if her trust in me is permanently screwed

Reply 2

Perhaps you can't, and all you can do is learn from it and watch what you say in future. Or I guess you could sit her down and tell her how sorry you are and that you didn't realise how much of a blabbermouth you were, and that her friendship means a lot to you and you miss it.