Psycho Boyfriend

Finish it, have a friend or something in the other room or a big ****off knife in your pocket whne you do it mind.

If a gal had gotten angry, pushed her b/f and threatened to kill him in the heat of the moment, would you tell him to get out of the relationship?
This is directed at all those who are telling her to get out immediately.

If a gal had gotten angry, pushed her b/f and threatened to kill him in the heat of the moment, would you tell him to get out of the relationship?
This is directed at all those who are telling her to get out immediately.

Yes, because he is obviously a 'psycho'. He got angry once! This is basis for deciding he will sort all his issues with violence, and is unable to hold a reasoned conversation without recourse.

Yes, obviously.

Are you trying to make a point?

Can you read?

The post begins: "My boyfriend has a very bad temper." Do you think, perhaps, that might suggest that he has gotten angry more than "once"?

I wonder about the state of many relationships if people are seemingly willing to dump someone at the first sign of trouble.

Right. So people with bad tempers deserve no understanding? People have tempers for a reason...

Nothing in her post suggests he has gotten physically aggressive before this. This would suggest any problems he has are getting worse, and that he needs help with them.

I wonder about the state of many relationships if people are seemingly willing to dump someone at the first sign of trouble.

First sign of trouble? Sorry, what exactly has she told us about her relationship previous to this that has led you to conclude that everything was rainbows and butterflies before this happened?

Let's look at the first line again.



Meaning: "My boyfriend NORMALLY has a very bad temper, but today he took it a step too far."

Yeah, that sure suggests that this is the "first sign of trouble."

If a gal had gotten angry, pushed her b/f and threatened to kill him in the heat of the moment, would you tell him to get out of the relationship?
This is directed at all those who are telling her to get out immediately.

I wouldn't take that kind of crap from my girlfriend. Without a phenomenally good explanation I'd completely lose my respect for her.

So you believe those with bad tempers deserve ultimate social isolation? Have you never felt angry then?

And please, if you can only make points by rolling your eyes, don't bother. No reason to be disrespectful of people.

I just wonder how you can all be so judgemental and clear cut about this. Lets face it, you know as much as I do. The difference is I'm thinking about it rather than simply saying;

'Dumps him yea, he is not worths it love'. What do you all know of this guys worth?

Would you appreciate it if the only advice you got was 'chuck her' though? How would that make you feel?

Again, it is evident you expect the smoothest of rides in a relationship. When in fact the best relationships are founded on struggle for that relationship.

I like how you change the subject when you realise you don't have a response to the actual points made... very clever.

Is it so frightfully abnormal that my girlfriend and I can sort things out without getting very angry?

Fair enough.

Your point was that he normally has a bad temper yes? He does not normally throw his g/f on the floor and threaten to kill her whilst smashing up the place. This is the difference. You are taking the OP's words out of context.

So, evidently something has happened to make him behave like this.

Unless I'd mentioned a good reason her having such an outburst, it's what I'd expect. I really don't see how you can do that to someone you love without extreme provocation.

Also, I'd love to see some evidence (outside of fictional love stories) that the best relationships are founded on struggle. I'm quite happy with a relationship founded on loving each other, thankyou very much. Is it so frightfully abnormal that me and my girfriend and I can sort things out without getting very angry?

You think that, as long as he doesn't "normally" do it, it's okay for someone to "throw his g/f on the floor and threaten to kill her whilst smashing up the place" every now and again?

I asked you what part of her post suggested that this was the "first sign of trouble"...

You think that, as long as he doesn't "normally" do it, it's okay for someone to "throw his g/f on the floor and threaten to kill her whilst smashing up the place" every now and again?