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    So a friend and I went to a 'massage' place in Central London Friday night, and we both had sex with an escort there. It was quite a ropy place, so not sure what diseases she may have had.

    Long story short, she put a condom on my member and gave me head. We then had protected vaginal sex for around 10 minutes.

    I'm 100% certain that the condom didn't slip off, it still very much covered the head of my penis, and a good portion of the shaft of my penis. I'm pretty certain it didn't break either, I've been told a broken condom is very obvious (I never had a broken condom with my ex so I wouldn't know!).

    I was however a bit drunk, so my member was semi-hard at best. Not sure if that makes a difference.

    My friend isn't worried at all. He insists the condom is a barrier and you can't get HIV if it didn't slip or break.

    Guess I'm just very anxious. Would appreciate some thoughts. Will definitely be getting an HIV duo test in 4 weeks' time, been reading that these 4th generation tests are virtually conclusive at the 28 day mark.
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    So a friend and I went to a 'massage' place in Central London Friday night, and we both had sex with an escort there. It was quite a ropy place, so not sure what diseases she may have had.

    Long story short, she put a condom on my member and gave me head. We then had protected vaginal sex for around 10 minutes.

    I'm 100% certain that the condom didn't slip off, it still very much covered the head of my penis, and a good portion of the shaft of my penis. I'm pretty certain it didn't break either, I've been told a broken condom is very obvious (I never had a broken condom with my ex so I wouldn't know!).

    I was however a bit drunk, so my member was semi-hard at best. Not sure if that makes a difference.

    My friend isn't worried at all. He insists the condom is a barrier and you can't get HIV if it didn't slip or break.

    Guess I'm just very anxious. Would appreciate some thoughts. Will definitely be getting an HIV duo test in 4 weeks' time, been reading that these 4th generation tests are virtually conclusive at the 28 day mark.
    You'd know it it broke!

    Just make sure you get the test when you can and try not to worry so much. If you think about it it's an escorts business to not get STIs so they can carry on 'working', just better to be safe than sorry and get the test.
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    The very high levels of condom use by escorts mean HIV rates are much lower than some people think. This plus the fact that a condom was used here means you don't have HIV from this. (Even if they were HIV+ and one hadn't been used for the oral, you wouldn't have HIV from this...)

    Testing will confirm this.
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    Dam this post is scary. Literally same thung word for word but in holiday 2 weeks ago. If you need to PM me for support do so.... It is a very tough time mentally. However i spoke to a health professional who almost laughed at my anxiety saying there is no chance whatsoever of contracting something. She said not to worry whatsoever.. So that helped me to relax. Let me know how it goes though

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