So a friend and I went to a 'massage' place in Central London Friday night, and we both had sex with an escort there. It was quite a ropy place, so not sure what diseases she may have had.
Long story short, she put a condom on my member and gave me head. We then had protected vaginal sex for around 10 minutes.
I'm 100% certain that the condom didn't slip off, it still very much covered the head of my penis, and a good portion of the shaft of my penis. I'm pretty certain it didn't break either, I've been told a broken condom is very obvious (I never had a broken condom with my ex so I wouldn't know!).
I was however a bit drunk, so my member was semi-hard at best. Not sure if that makes a difference.
My friend isn't worried at all. He insists the condom is a barrier and you can't get HIV if it didn't slip or break.
Guess I'm just very anxious. Would appreciate some thoughts. Will definitely be getting an HIV duo test in 4 weeks' time, been reading that these 4th generation tests are virtually conclusive at the 28 day mark.
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