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    Right so I'm aware that everyone masturbates differently and different thing work for different people.
    I'm quiet a sexual person but i cant stand to masturbate in the 'traditional' sense. I use a vibrator against my clit and grind into it and it is some what pleasurable. I have tried to use different kinds of vibrator in me while simulating my clit but i cant stand them in me, I'm very tight and its uncomfortable I to try and stay it out but I it give up before i can give it a chance to work. I've tried to relax but that doesn't seem to work. I'm 19 and worried this is going to stop me having full penetrative sex with a man as so far I've just been with women. In my previous relationship I've been more of a giver then a receiver as it always felt wrong and i would fake it a lot of the time.
    Any advise on being able to masturbate properly and achieve a proper sexual gratification would be much appreciated.
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    Right so I'm aware that everyone masturbates differently and different thing work for different people.
    I'm quiet a sexual person but i cant stand to masturbate in the 'traditional' sense. I use a vibrator against my clit and grind into it and it is some what pleasurable. I have tried to use different kinds of vibrator in me while simulating my clit but i cant stand them in me, I'm very tight and its uncomfortable I to try and stay it out but I it give up before i can give it a chance to work. I've tried to relax but that doesn't seem to work. I'm 19 and worried this is going to stop me having full penetrative sex with a man as so far I've just been with women. In my previous relationship I've been more of a giver then a receiver as it always felt wrong and i would fake it a lot of the time.
    Any advise on being able to masturbate properly and achieve a proper sexual gratification would be much appreciated.
    We cant actually give advise on here i dont think, but some people dont like receiving sex if you will, so its not abnormal at all for this.


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    Most women masturbate by stimulating their clitoris rather than via penetration, but there is a very wide variety of methods. Women who like grinding often find mains-powered vibrators best.

    It's not uncommon for penetration to be difficult - it can take practice. One basic method involves trying a series of 'dilators', starting with the smallest and getting bigger as you get used to it.
 
 
 
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