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    Why the hell are women so anti flirting, any eye contact in public places, everyone just stares at their dumb devices, I have one too but I don't stare at it all the time. People are conservative and frigid. They bore the living **** out of me.

    That's all. It's extrordinarily dehumanising, boring and frustrating, any other guys feel this?
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    Why should them "staring at their device" stop you from interacting with them? If you like a girl just go up to her and start a conversation..?
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    Those women you seem to be encountering are probably just not interested in you. Best thing to do is to just reciprocate the sentiment and then some. Not all women are the same, though.
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    Biatches aint shizznit.
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    I think a lot of people are just into themselves, and iphones and tablets distract people from making face to face contact all stranger interaction and flirting is now online.

    Plus some women fear men due to all the scaremongering and 'everday sexism' type malarkey.
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    They probably just aren't attracted to you
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    (Original post by jazjaz)
    I think a lot of people are just into themselves, and iphones and tablets distract people from making face to face contact all stranger interaction and flirting is now online.

    Plus some women fear men due to all the scaremongering and 'everday sexism' type malarkey.
    Yeah, radical feminism, plus enititlement, self absorption and all. I don't want to conduct relations through the web though, it sucks so bad. I don't want to use tinder and all, I hate facebook. People seem weirdly nullified, sometimes I feel I'm in a ghost town before climate change ravages us, it's like some pre apocolyptic nullified state in people. I definitely think it's generational, being raised on it has changed people socially.

    Maybe that's grandiose, lol.
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    Chat to them man
    Develop a IDGAF attitude
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    (Original post by SaucissonSecCy)
    Yeah, radical feminism, plus enititlement, self absorption and all. I don't want to conduct relations through the web though, it sucks so bad. I don't want to use tinder and all, I hate facebook. People seem weirdly nullified, sometimes I feel I'm in a ghost town before climate change ravages us, it's like some pre apocolyptic nullified state in people. I definitely think it's generational, being raised on it has changed people socially.

    Maybe that's grandiose, lol.
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    (Original post by SaucissonSecCy)
    Yeah, radical feminism, plus enititlement, self absorption and all. I don't want to conduct relations through the web though, it sucks so bad. I don't want to use tinder and all, I hate facebook. People seem weirdly nullified, sometimes I feel I'm in a ghost town before climate change ravages us, it's like some pre apocolyptic nullified state in people. I definitely think it's generational, being raised on it has changed people socially.

    Maybe that's grandiose, lol.
    Welcome to transhumanism! I'm not a fan of social media either and I like to talk to strangers -especially on the tube :nutcase:
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    (Original post by jazjaz)
    Welcome to transhumanism! I'm not a fan of social media either and I like to talk to strangers -especially on the tube :nutcase:
    I've had sex approx 15 times in 15 years. That's all. Even if it was more it's definitely less than twice a year.

    You may not want to know that. An average of once a year sucks though.
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    (Original post by jazjaz)
    Welcome to transhumanism! I'm not a fan of social media either and I like to talk to strangers -especially on the tube :nutcase:
    And yeah, it's a little haunting.
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    (Original post by SaucissonSecCy)
    1)Why the hell are women so anti flirting, any eye contact in public places, 2) everyone just stares at their dumb devices, I have one too but I don't stare at it all the time. People are conservative and frigid. They bore the living **** out of me.

    That's all. It's extrordinarily dehumanising, boring and frustrating, any other guys feel this?

    1) No we're not. We are not one entity who all have the same thoughts and opinions. So it is illogical to say women are anti-flirting. Some women don't want to be flirted with for a variety of reasons (such as in a relationship, busy or just not interested) and others are more than happy to be flirted with.

    2) This is a problem with many people nowadays, so it is not just limited to women which your post suggests. You can't change how people act, and you can't make them want to socialise with you. So instead stop acting like everyone owes you their time and instead only look to socialise with people who aren't on their phones 24/7. And yes, many people aren't.

    3) Many PEOPLE. Feel like this. It isn't an issue of gender. It isn't women vs men. It's just people going about their lives and you just so happen to feel entitled to be a part of whoever's life you choose.

    If you want to talk to women, talk to them. But don't feel entitled to a positive reaction from every single one of them. It's just illogical and self centred.
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    The replies are slower on threads nowadays for the same reason, people on smartphones, iphones, so many tech options, so their attention is more diverted. They are even detached in the medium that detached them in the first place, ironic that!
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    (Original post by SaucissonSecCy)
    I've had sex approx 15 times in 15 years. That's all. Even if it was more it's definitely less than twice a year.
    Haha no I'm a girl and I like talking to random people to be friendly and connect with my fellow human beings (although I mostly weird people out) not to get laid.

    Maybe a girlfriend or a bedroom buddy will increase the frequency for you? That isn't a lot of sex over the years but you have to remember there are lots of virgins who would die to be you!
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    (Original post by jazjaz)
    Haha no I'm a girl and I like talking to random people to be friendly and connect with my fellow human beings (although I mostly weird people out) not to get laid.

    Maybe a girlfriend or a bedroom buddy will increase the frequency for you? That isn't a lot of sex over the years but you have to remember there are lots of virgins who would die to be you!
    Yeah but I'm older-it is literally one a year max-but there was one at uni, an older woman who I had a few times, the average is lower besides that. It sucks.
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    ... but u do know usually girls will find that creepy unless you have some good credentials or are very good looking :P
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    (Original post by jazjaz)
    Haha no I'm a girl and I like talking to random people to be friendly and connect with my fellow human beings (although I mostly weird people out) not to get laid.

    Maybe a girlfriend or a bedroom buddy will increase the frequency for you? That isn't a lot of sex over the years but you have to remember there are lots of virgins who would die to be you!
    Shame you weird 'em out. Frankly if a woman talked to me in public nowadays I'd be aghast. In a good way.
 
 
 
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