Friend problems.

I have a friend that is a girl. I know she does not fancy me, but I sometimes get the impression that [she thinks that] no girl fancies me (for whatever reason). Anyway, today I was talking about a girl that was into me, that basically screwed me over. My mate was saying things like "Ohhhh, shes just playing with you" blah blah blah. When in fact, this girl did invite me to her room many times alone, and initially approached me. She wanted a fling (it occured to me after she left the university, because she does not want to keep in touch now). I never did make a move, because I felt bad for her bf back home.

My friend is giving me the impression that this girl just was bored and was not really interested to begin with and so screwed me over for the fun off it.

This is not the first time she has made these sly comments. For example, other times I have spoken about girls coming onto me (and they have), and she will say things like "Really???Honestly...Your not making this up are you?". This is starting to really piss me off, because I have been complimented so many times by other people for my looks/style etc and I have had attention. Whereas, because she does not think I am attractive, she feels its right to dampen my confidence. (and I suppose thats why it is annoying because it is unneccessary)

What are your thoughts?

I know what you mean, I hate people who can't emphasise enough just how unattracted to you they are and take every opportunity to point out that they could never possibly fancy you. Next time she makes a comment like that tell her to stop being a bitch, you don't fancy her either but you don't make a big deal out of it. That should shut her up.

I have a friend that is a girl. I know she does not fancy me, but I sometimes get the impression that no girl fancies me (for whatever reason). Anyway, today I was talking about a girl that was into me, that basically screwed me over. My mate was saying things like "Ohhhh, shes just playing with you" blah blah blah. When in fact, this girl did invite me to her room many times alone, and initially approached me. She wanted a fling (it occured to me after she left the university, because she does not want to keep in touch now). I never did make a move, because I felt bad for her bf back home.

My friend is giving me the impression that this girl just was bored and was not really interested to begin with and so screwed me over for the fun off it.

This is not the first time she has made these sly comments. For example, other times I have spoken about girls coming onto me (and they have), and she will say things like "Really???Honestly...Your not making this up are you?". This is starting to really piss me off, because I have been complimented so many times by other people for my looks/style etc and I have had attention. Whereas, because she does not think I am attractive, she feels its right to dampen my confidence. (and I suppose thats why it is annoying because it is unneccessary)

What are your thoughts?