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    So I've been seeing this girl for over four years. She's really close to her best friend who is friendly enough but gets a bit mental when she's drunk. Over the last four years there's been numerous occasions where when both my girlfriend and her best friend have kissed each other (with tongues) during a night out. Sometimes with me there, sometimes not. At first I didn't know how to handle this so I just pretended to be fine with it and turned a blind eye.
    However recently they went on a girls holiday and although I do not think my girlfriend is actually bi I found out they made out on holiday again in front of random guys. I've since brought it up with my girlfriend saying how would she feel roles reversed and she said she understood etc it won't happen again.

    Well she went out last night and her other mate was poring snapchats, one of them being the two of them making out in front of random guys again. I'm furious.

    My question is am I over reacting? If not, should I stay or run?
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    I'd probably end it tbh, mainly because she's doing it in front of guys.

    Attention seeking girls are always the worst, and tend to have a whole load of insecurities that make them unpredictable.


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    So I've been seeing this girl for over four years. She's really close to her best friend who is friendly enough but gets a bit mental when she's drunk. Over the last four years there's been numerous occasions where when both my girlfriend and her best friend have kissed each other (with tongues) during a night out. Sometimes with me there, sometimes not. At first I didn't know how to handle this so I just pretended to be fine with it and turned a blind eye.
    However recently they went on a girls holiday and although I do not think my girlfriend is actually bi I found out they made out on holiday again in front of random guys. I've since brought it up with my girlfriend saying how would she feel roles reversed and she said she understood etc it won't happen again.

    Well she went out last night and her other mate was poring snapchats, one of them being the two of them making out in front of random guys again. I'm furious.

    My question is am I over reacting? If not, should I stay or run?
    You aren't overreacting; she broke her promise that it would stop.
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    I don't think you're overreacting but try talking to her first. If her response is much the same as before and you now can't trust that she'll do what she says then I don't see that you have anywhere else to go but your own separate ways.
 
 
 
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