feel soo crap. please help

i had an operation the other week on my nose. and i get bullied by this girl. shes found out about it and shes asking me things like 'was it a nose job' ' are you happy with it' etc in a smirking sneering way.

plus people are thinking im a gossiper- which i am not- something got out of hand and people think im a gossiper. its the only time it happened and already im being labelled.

plus my best mate doesnt want me as her friend anymore so i feel crap.

can anyone give advice?

Reply 1

Dimez

14

Chin up and blow your nose with pride. :smile:

Reply 2

ambiguous

Dimez

Chin up and blow your nose with pride. :smile:

now now, thats not very nice

Reply 3

Bubblebee

15

Didn't you post in here before about getting corrective surgery on your nose?

If it wasn't purely for asthetic purposes then tell them, you have nothing to be ashamed about.

As for gossiping, people will forget about it once the next rumour comes around, next time dont ****ing gossip.

Reply 4

stop-drop-n-lol

1

Just tell them straight up that you did have one, that way they'll see that 'teasing' you about it doesn't bother you so would just leave you alone.

Reply 5

Rouge

Anonymous

i had an operation the other week on my nose. and i get bullied by this girl. shes found out about it and shes asking me things like 'was it a nose job' ' are you happy with it' etc in a smirking sneering way.

plus people are thinking im a gossiper- which i am not- something got out of hand and people think im a gossiper. its the only time it happened and already im being labelled.

plus my best mate doesnt want me as her friend anymore so i feel crap.

can anyone give advice?

was it for a medical reason? if so whats the shame

Reply 6

lil'p

10

just tell her to f off!!

Reply 7

space hopper

1

say you had a nose job and doesn't she think you look great, then offer to give her the name of the place so that she can get one done too. Tell her it'll improve her confidence no end, and she could really do with one! :p:

hehehe

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

Hay if you had a nose job tell me - is there much swelling. I like my nose but just want the tip redefined/thinner just worried about the swelling/recovery time. Wouldn't be ashamed of it myself. Nothing worse than a nose jobber who lies about it. As for boob jobs naaah , two much maintenance (redoing every 10 years plus they go hard) and they only look good in lads mags coz they're all airbrushed.

Stop acting like a wuss and no one will bully you. Be strong, bitch back.

Reply 9

noodles!

14

Just rise above it all, especially the nose thing- people only tease others when insecure about themselves.

The gossip thing: evidently people are gossiping about you too if they're talking about that! So don't worry.

Reply 10

BlackHawk

17

Enough of the nose jokes.

OP, I suggest that you point out to her why you had the operation in the first place. Either that or ignore her. Most people who taunt others do it for the reaction they get.