Feeling ugly and down

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I'm in my last year of 6th form and I'm trying to concentrate on my revisions and Art which is incredibly time-consuming. I also feel so ulgy and have lack of confidence due to it.

The reason I feel so ulgy is due to the fact that I have tons of spots on my face; I've tried most things the doctor gave me from cosmetics to antibiotics to pills, there was one time when I covered my face in foundation because I hated my skin - this obviously made my spots worse...

The spots are like rashes on my face, my skin is very oily and is sensitive so spots easily occurs :frown:

I had spots since I was 11 now 17! and I'm seriously upset about it especially when I see people looking so much prettier with clear skin.

Also money is another issue, I don't get EMA and don't get pocket money off my parents. So I can't afford clothes or things to make myself feel better about myself - the clothes I wear are horrible and worned out and it also doesn't help when I see lots of people looking fashionable and great with new clothes and make up...etc Also the comment my friend made ' Having money makes you look so much better doesn't it'... That kind of dented my confidence. :frown:

I'm looking for a part-time job at the mo because I'm in a need of money but none replied so far! And I have a feeling that if I get a part-time job , it would let my studying drop.

I'm also upset too because my ex keeps pestering me saying that he has a 'gorgeous gf who's perfect' and keeps texting and emailing; I just found out yestersday and I tghought we were going to remain friends,BUT it seems like he's trying to make me feel bad. I just feel so down and nothing cheers me up anymore! :frown:

Sorry about my ranting. But I'm in a need of advice because I don't know what to do with myself anymore.

EDIT: Oh damn... I was ment to go anonymous...

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

I know what you mean, I get like that too - I recently compared myself to another girl today at uni and that was a big mistake because she's not only really hot but rich so can afford nice clothes. I'm attractive but not rich :frown:

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

Money doesn't make much difference at this age, their are plenty of students who like you are poor or dont have money given to them by parents, make the most of what you have and work hard towards what you want in the future as money will be much more important to you then.

Reply 3

gyrase

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I have a few spots ... but I'm very handsome, the women almost drool when I enter the club. The girls get excited in uni when I get of the bus. I spin it, rich way, cool boi, stylish shizzle, u get me homie

Reply 4

Hev456

11

In reference to your spots the only thing I can suggest that literally rid me of mine was going on The Pill - my doctor gave me one called Dianette and my gosh the thing works wonders! It can take up to 6-8 months to work but when it does it gives miraculous results.... well it did to me and i haven't found a woman it hasn't worked on.

Ask your doctor, you say you're in last year of 6th form (same year as me) so you're definitely old enough, and the plus side is you can go on the pill without having to admit you might want it also as a contraceptive - result! :p:

Reply 5

Anonymous #3

If you tired everything for your skin like I had then ask to be referred to a dermatoogist, they may put you on a drug called roaccutane, which is a heavy drug but is almost certain to get rid of your acne for a long time if not for the rest of your life, its great and will make you feel 10 times better about yourself if you have clear skin. :smile:

Reply 6

minimo

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Sweetie, if you search my old threads there will be I made in June about how I resolved my acne issues. In addition, I remember seeing you're picture a while back and you were beautiful then, so it can't have changed :wink:

PM me if you want more :hugs:

or have quessies. xxxx

Reply 7

Robbolo

13

I can see how that can be a massive ego-deflater, and it probably wont matter much about me saying this, but don't care! Lifes too short to worry about looks and money at your age! I know that sounds a bit crappy but im 18, poor and butt ugly too :p:

Just try to feel a little happier about the grander things in life and soon youll stop worrying....just have fun with yourself while you still can!

Reply 8

danni_bella

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Hey sweetie, you don't have to have money just to look good - I used to think so too but there are practical ways you can improve your appearance cheaply.

For example my mates lately have been saying how nice my hair is, but I haven't done anything with it for ages :biggrin:

About all I've done is dyed it dark again and had it trimmed, which is a lot less expensive than style cut + streaks which I can't afford right now.

Also clothing can be cheap too, I wish you lived near to me so we could go shopping :biggrin:

As for skin, drink up (water! Though, lol) and cut out dairy after 5pm if you can. HTH but most importantly here's a hug :hugs:

Reply 9

Anonymous #4

i wish i were poor and ugly cause then i'd know my friends are with me because of who i am inside, don't even get me started on boyfriends! wanna trade?

Reply 10

Flank Runner

It really doesn't matter, the spots will go with age, money will come with a good career from you studying so diligently and confidence will come when you realise its not what you look like or the size of your bank balance that attract real men not litle boys like your ex, who are so easily swayed by something shiny and pretty, real men, find a happy smile, a little hand squeeze or simply a laugh far more attractive

a friend of mine in another regiment once said

happiness is a state of mind, if your not happy, change your mind,

that saying alone has kept me going when ive thought of quitting and going home

take care and BE HAPPY

chris

Reply 11

Anonymous #5

I had the same problem as you with spots all over my face! Mine happened from when I was about 16 to about 19 as I went to the doctors. I know u said that u have tried everything from pills and whatever but Just so u no what worked for me was using Zyneryt Lotion (on prescription from the doctor) twice a day with sebomin capsules (also on prescription from the doctor once a day) this combined with using a mild facial soap before applying the lotion morning and night has made my skin excellent so much so that the girl who always used to bully me about my skin has worse skin than myself! This is what worked for me so its worth a try for u!
x

Reply 12

Soul Rebel

12

I had spots - roucacctuane did the job. pretty intense stuff. only prescribed through a dermotologist and you need a monthly bloodtest to make sure your body is reacting postivley to it.

charity shopping for clothes. well my gf the fashion queen haha goes to charity shops all the time. be innovotive ya know.

your ex sounds like a tosser so dont let him get you down. i mean lets face it why would he bother to constantly get in touch with you and be mean if he didnt like you or think about you.

look at the bright side of things. being sociable is the best cure for anything in my opinion haha!

Reply 13

Carpediemxx

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Anonymous

I had the same problem as you with spots all over my face! Mine happened from when I was about 16 to about 19 as I went to the doctors. I know u said that u have tried everything from pills and whatever but Just so u no what worked for me was using Zyneryt Lotion (on prescription from the doctor) twice a day with sebomin capsules (also on prescription from the doctor once a day) this combined with using a mild facial soap before applying the lotion morning and night has made my skin excellent so much so that the girl who always used to bully me about my skin has worse skin than myself! This is what worked for me so its worth a try for u!
x

I had pretty bad spots too when i was younger and i used that Zyneryt too...its really really good, and it starts working right away. Go docs and ask about it, and ull probably have it in conjunction with an antibiotic to take.

I have used about 4 different antiobiotics and to be honest i dont find them the best form of treatment...i find the stuff u actually put on much better...

AS with the zyneryt, use something called DUAC DAILY GEL (both are prescribed) cos that stuff is great

If all that dont work, then uve already probably heard of roaccutane =/ which is most likely to cure it, but side effects can be very nasty. SO i recomend the above. Good luck. (If u look at my profile pic thats me now, and about 6-8 months ago i was covered)

Marc

PS ur ex is a faggot

Reply 14

minimo

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SEZKIN! I tried to reply your PM, but your inbox is full up - you need to delete some before I can send you one. xxx

Reply 15

Lucia.

16

aww sweetie I remember when you had your picture up and I thought you looked beautiful :smile:

I have problems with spots too and you don't need a lot of money to look good. Anyway as I said, you already look lovely :hugs:

Reply 16

minimo

15

Remember your ex just wants to make you feel like ****. He isn't worth your while :smile:

Reply 17

Sezkin

OP

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Anonymous

Money doesn't make much difference at this age, their are plenty of students who like you are poor or dont have money given to them by parents, make the most of what you have and work hard towards what you want in the future as money will be much more important to you then.

Yeah, I guess so. I'll just have to work hard now :biggrin:

I should really look on the bright side of things. :redface:

Thanks.

Reply 18

Sezkin

OP

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Anonymous

i wish i were poor and ugly cause then i'd know my friends are with me because of who i am inside, don't even get me started on boyfriends! wanna trade?

Yes.

Reply 19

Sezkin

OP

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Flank Runner

It really doesn't matter, the spots will go with age, money will come with a good career from you studying so diligently and confidence will come when you realise its not what you look like or the size of your bank balance that attract real men not litle boys like your ex, who are so easily swayed by something shiny and pretty, real men, find a happy smile, a little hand squeeze or simply a laugh far more attractive

a friend of mine in another regiment once said

happiness is a state of mind, if your not happy, change your mind,

that saying alone has kept me going when ive thought of quitting and going home

take care and BE HAPPY

chris

Awww thank you! That made me feel much better too :smile:

I like the way you said this; that's sweet:

or the size of your bank balance that attract real men not litle boys like your ex, who are so easily swayed by something shiny and pretty, real men, find a happy smile, a little hand squeeze or simply a laugh far more attractive

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