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GIRLS - How long does it take you to orgasm?

When another guy/girl is pleasuring you in whatever way

And what method?

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Regular sex - honestly, never. In a few positions I have come close.

Oral - really depends... My ex liked to make it go on forever. I guess usually 10-15 minutes... He liked to keep me hanging on. I could finish in 5 if I'm being honest.
In my experience, most girls do struggle to orgasm while having normal sex. You have to know what you're doing :wink:
Reply 3
Original post by EloiseStar
Regular sex - honestly, never. In a few positions I have come close.

Oral - really depends... My ex liked to make it go on forever. I guess usually 10-15 minutes... He liked to keep me hanging on. I could finish in 5 if I'm being honest.


yeah i don't mean vaginal sex that never works for me
Original post by Anonymous
yeah i don't mean vaginal sex that never works for me


Most people are going to assume vaginal seeing as in hetero relationships it is the default.
Reply 5
Penetrative sex - never had an orgasm through that
Oral or fingers - 5/10 mins
Sex toy - less than a minute sometimes but generally around a minute or 2
Penetrative - 10 mins or so IF and only if I am on top, have never and will never orgasm in any other position, gotta have that clitoral stimulation.
Oral, a tad longer..hard to keep momentum going
Reply 7
Original post by EloiseStar
Most people are going to assume vaginal seeing as in hetero relationships it is the default.


i didn't mention sex in my OP i said in whatever way
Reply 8
I'm a straight 2 minute man no wonder I have 4 kids 😂😂
Reply 9
Original post by Jokerjon
I'm a straight 2 minute man no wonder I have 4 kids 😂😂


The sperm just has to reach the egg, pal. You having four kids doesn't really reflect how good you are at eliciting an 'orgasm'.
:wink:
Original post by Davalla
The sperm just has to reach the egg, pal. You having four kids doesn't really reflect how good you are at eliciting an 'orgasm'.
:wink:


Well actually, a female orgasm statically increases the likelihood of fertilisation as it increases the rate and distance at which the sperm enters into the uterus. Fun fact.

At OP. This will vary massively by person.

But for me.
Vaginal penetration with a partner -15 minutes
-clitoral stimulation from a partner - never
-solo- 10 minutes.
Original post by SophieSmall
Well actually, a female orgasm statically increases the likelihood of fertilisation as it increases the rate and distance at which the sperm enters into the uterus. Fun fact.

I'll give it to you, you've well and proper done me over.

I feel sad now.
:wink:
(edited 8 years ago)
Original post by Davalla
I'll give it to you, you've well and proper done me over.

I feel sad now.
:wink:



Don't feel bad :tongue:
Just bow down to my superior knowledge.
Original post by SophieSmall
Don't feel bad :tongue:
Just bow down to my superior knowledge.

Okie dokie.
They should start using protection though, don't you think? >>>
Original post by Jokerjon
I'm a straight 2 minute man no wonder I have 4 kids 😂😂

In the words of Jeremy Kyle: why don't you put something on the end of it?!
Original post by Davalla
Okie dokie.
They should start using protection though, don't you think? >>>

In the words of Jeremy Kyle: why don't you put something on the end of it?!



I think it was a study done on couples trying to conceive :tongue:
Original post by SophieSmall
I think it was a study done on couples trying to conceive :tongue:

I meant the guy that I quoted- he implied that his apparent ability to give an orgasm has led to four kids. :biggrin:
Original post by Davalla
I meant the guy that I quoted- he implied that his apparent ability to give an orgasm has led to four kids. :biggrin:


I expect it was a joke :tongue:
Original post by Davalla
The sperm just has to reach the egg, pal. You having four kids doesn't really reflect how good you are at eliciting an 'orgasm'.
:wink:


Next time i joke I'll use a more serious emoji so people can realise I'm bantering. Not that it matters anyways thank you for your in depth analysis it stand me In great help in the future.
Original post by Davalla
Okie dokie.
They should start using protection though, don't you think? >>>

In the words of Jeremy Kyle: why don't you put something on the end of it?!


Because ive always wanted to meet the agony uncle himself jezza.
during sex : never
Oral : never
fingering : once
Clit stimulation : 10-15 mins but rarely as the guy usually stops or doesn't keep rhythm
on my own: 5-10 mins..

sooo basically i should just get a sex toy and live happily ever after..

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