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please can someone help?!

I would really like some advice on supporting one of my dearest friends he is going through a difficult time at the moment and i dont no wot i can do 2 help?? every time i try and help him he pushes me away he doesnt tell me wots going on and i dont want him to do anything stupid!!
I try and tell him that his friends are here for him, i am there for him nd i will do nethin all he has to do is ask and he knows it (i think) !! there are a few people who are worried bout him now and i just wanna no if im doing the rite thing by asking him questions all the time because he keeps telling me im nagging but im not its just that i care, i am looking out for my friend coz thats wot friends are for if we dont look after each other who will??

Reply 1

I think your doing great, maybe cool it on the questions... keep telling no matter what, you... YOU not his other friends will be there for him. Tell him if he needs some one to talk to about ANYTHING you will be there to listen. You cant force some one to tell you how they are feeling but if you open your ears then they will tell you when they are good and ready.

Reply 2

Write him a letter maybe, expressing that you care.

Reply 3

Gaylee
I think your doing great, maybe cool it on the questions... keep telling no matter what, you... YOU not his other friends will be there for him. Tell him if he needs some one to talk to about ANYTHING you will be there to listen. You cant force some one to tell you how they are feeling but if you open your ears then they will tell you when they are good and ready.

Thanx for the advice

Reply 4

It's my life
Write him a letter maybe, expressing that you care.

do you think that would b the best thing well i wont do it 2 soon but thanx 4 dat babe x

Reply 5

Anonymous
do you think that would b the best thing well i wont do it 2 soon but thanx 4 dat babe x



Usually when all else fails, if you can't tell him in person it's best to put it in writing.