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Friendship problem

Last sat i went out with one of my friends who i have known for like 10+ years( we met at primary school) we known each other for so long cause we went to secondary school too anyways we got on quite well there.
We lost contact for bout a year but now we see each other quite a bit and i counted her as one of my best friends. The past couple of months things dont seem the same i dont really comfatable around her. she is very confident, socialble loves having fun and me on the other hand lack confidence and im quite shy but can be confident around certain people
but this has never affected our friendship Before.

the other night we went down town me & her have never been out just us 2 and t was arkward we did not have much to say. then this guy came& spoke to her and was buying her drinks then invited us to go to another club i really did not want to go but i did not want to ruin the night. so i went and i felt really left out and went home early my friend made sure i got a taxi home o.k but went back to the club.

I felt angry at her 4 leaving me the next day i waited till like 1pm and then texted her to see if she got home o.k. she did said she had so much fun! was sorry if she made me feel left out etc do you think i have the right to be angry at her? Or im i jus overeacting? im really dreading seeing her again

Reply 1

I think you're over-reacting. Was it not for the best that she cut an awkward evening short?

Sounds like you've just grown apart to be honest. :frown:

Reply 2

hows it her fault you didnt have much to talk about its both your faults. Neither of you did anything wrong and you dont want to be a cock block aswell

Reply 3

i think you are probably overreacting..but as the above post says, its just that you've grown apart. this is something i have experienced with some mates at home..tbh we are just so different now it just is strange when we hang out...bit sad really but i know how you feel! x