This discussion is now closed.

Check out other Related discussions

Sexyback!

In my form room at registration, since the begninning of the year, I've seen a really goodlooking teacher through the window into the next building. My friend and I just call him sexyback!!!

The most amazing thing happened today.

He's a science teacher and has been covering my lessons for a few days. After the lesson he took me aside and asked me if I liked him as he said he liked me. In different words...I actually had no response. I said I'd speak to him tomorrow and that I had a buss to catch when really it was just adrenalin and in the heat of the moment I panicked.

Any advice? Should I steer away from him?? I'm 17 and he's 24 but he's still a teacher.

It's unreal

Reply 1

street

1

Thats messed up. Its so unprofessional he could lose his job.

Reply 2

Clubber Lang

15

Is you well fit?

Reply 3

Square

13

Total abuse of a position of power.

Reply 4

username43584

8

You must report him.

Reply 5

Sephrenia

16

bye bye mr teacher job...they cannot do that..steer clear...well clear...100ft bargepole clear....

Reply 6

Zerforax

21

oooh do something, get video evidence and blackmail? :biggrin:

or be sensible and report/ignore?

Reply 7

Sirenskye

Although it's flattering, it's still a total abuse of his position.

Reply 8

AJ-1

well i dont think you should report...its a two way thing init bcoz you like him aswell...just dont let it go any further! bcoz he will lose his job init Or you could just do whats going on on Skins on E4 lol

Reply 9

minimo

15

Anonymous

In my form room at registration, since the begninning of the year, I've seen a really goodlooking teacher through the window into the next building. My friend and I just call him sexyback!!!

The most amazing thing happened today.

He's a science teacher and has been covering my lessons for a few days. After the lesson he took me aside and asked me if I liked him as he said he liked me. In different words...I actually had no response. I said I'd speak to him tomorrow and that I had a buss to catch when really it was just adrenalin and in the heat of the moment I panicked.

Any advice? Should I steer away from him?? I'm 17 and he's 24 but he's still a teacher.

It's unreal

NO. That is wrong. He WILL get sacked. You WILL get in trouble.

Reply 10

ShinyApple

14

minimo

You WILL get in trouble.

A minor/pupil would never get in trouble.

Edit: From a legal standpoint. Obviously the other fallout is subject to individual responses from those concerned which can never be gauged.

Reply 11

IndianDiva

minimo

NO. That is wrong. He WILL get sacked. You WILL get in trouble.

:dito:

Reply 12

Ywiss

15

Whoa...stay away. He knows you're a pupil and is deliberately undermining his professionalism.

He sounds dodgy.

Reply 13

Jennybean

13

Sirenskye

Although it's flattering, it's still a total abuse of his position.

I think this sums it up quite nicely really. OP I understand you're probably thrilled that the teacher you fancied has propositioned you so brazenly, but I think you have to ask yourself, if he just approached you like that out of the blue and seemed completely calm about the whole thing, how many other girls must he have said the same thing to? I expect he's a really nasty piece of work that knows he's attractive and that his pupils fancy him and uses it to **** them around. I would report him if I were you, I doubt he's innocent enough that he wants a nice decent relationship and thinks that you two could be together with no complications. I reckon he knows damn well that what he's doing is completely unprofessional and a total abuse of his position.

Reply 14

ro-ro

10

Ok so it is a total abuse of trust but because she's studying doesn't make her some poor vunerable innocent schoolgirl being preyed on by an older evil man. The teacher bit is wrong but the age isn't, it's livable.

Only I wouldn't trust him because he barely knows you and is prepared to sacrifice his job, it's not like you've built a relationship or it could be construed as love. He wants a **** pure and simple and must be very hedonistic to risk it all for that, to an extent that he is probably selfish and doesn't accept consequences. Not good more than friends material. As if you could be friends with a teacher (jk!)!

Reply 15

Juwel

18

Don't go near it; you'd soon get bored of a science teacher :p:

I mean err, yeah, <ahem>, steer well clear.

Reply 16

nmt_oli

1

Stay away would be adviseable, proceed with caution absolute minumum.
It can work out, although not without a lot of hassle! A 6th former at our school married a teacher, while they were still in school. Althought he teacherr was supended until the 6th former left, they are still together and the teacher is still teaching at my old school.