is my girlfriend hiding something?

Ok, so basically this is what has happened so far.
my gf is apparently really in love with me, which is great. But i think something might be going on. There this guy she knows who she used to REALLY like, she's in a theater production with him, and she has to kiss him a lot, as they play a married couple. which i can put up with. The other night she walked home and he walked her back looking after her, and they sat outside talking for ages, which she said was really really nice. i know she got a txt off her ex (who she is really good friends with now), she told me it was him, and then she started being a bit funny after that for the rest of the night. this friend of her who's in the theater production also wrote her a song, which she said she didn't know he felt that way. When i talk to her friends, they all say she loves me, which she has never felt that way before. When i ask her about what was up she comes up with a plorsable explanation. I don't want to come across as paranoid or just being silly, but something doesn't feel quite right. Any suggestions form anyone would be greatly appreciated.

Reply 1

TheThirdMan

You should be able to speak to her honestly. Ask her up front. If she denies it, trust her, if you think you can. thats all you can do rly.

Reply 2

LipGloss

Jealous! Come on, you know you are. But talk to her about your concerns, she may be able to reassure you. :smile:

Reply 3

Juwel

Maybe she hasn't got the message that it bothers you. When she does, she'll stop trying to explain, and reassure you instead.

Reply 4

invisible_gal

Just talk to her, but casually, don't make it seem like you think there's something up if you can help it.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

I have this problem at the moment, with my gf and another girl. I love my gf but my best friend and I really like each other (and we know it) and I go around her house every week to help her with her work, because otherwise she will FAIL english. And we kinda flirt. Which i thouroughly enjoy. But it's killing me inside. :frown:

Reply 6

King Hippo

If she was at it, and messing aruond behind your back, she wouldn't have told you that he wrote her a song. If she thought you'd be suspicious then obviously she wouldn't have told you. Maybe she cares about you and wanted you to hear it from her before you heard it from one of her mates and took it the wrong way.

Reply 7

ForeverIsMyName

Check her wardrobe.

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