The Student Room Group

Reply 1

tell him to tell his gf...explain how its the honest thing to do...thats if he cares about his relationship..if he doesn't say you will.

he may say he was drunk and use it as an excuse...it isn't!

Reply 2

What he said, aside from the blackmailing to be honest. I'd just let them know its not cool, and leave it.

Reply 3

Anonymous
I found out that one of my mates (who is currenting in a relationship) got off with another girl when he went out one night. This obviously isn't fair on his gf and i think something should be done, but i don't know what to do, cause he won't trust me anymore if i say something about it. Help!!!

Theres no badness in that. I've done all my girl mates in nightclubs.

Reply 4

Decota
Theres no badness in that. I've done all my girl mates in nightclubs.


Actually, cheating IS bad. Where do you live, under a rock?

Reply 5

Yoda
What he said, aside from the blackmailing to be honest. I'd just let them know its not cool, and leave it.


Agree with that. Blackmailing your mates is a bad idea.

Reply 6

yea, if you are primarily mates with the guy, then you just try and let him know that it's not on, which is what others have said. Its not right to get involved though, especially threatening to tell his gf, two wrongs dont make a right y'know?!

essentials of it are, tell him he should feel bad enough to tell her anyway, and drop it.

Reply 7

Am assuming your friend is an adult, and adults make their own decisions. If he decides to tell his gf then fine, if not, then you have no right to interfere in your friend's private relationship.