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Hey guys, there is this girl on my course she is Muslim (she wears the headscarf), absolutely stunning, and super friendly. She is the first really good looking girl to be friendly, funny and kind but also super smart. Basically I am falling for her, but like I said she is Muslim. What do I do? She'll be hard to ignore whilst I am on my course with her, and she really is a rarity for me.

I get attention from other girls, but she is the first one that I keep thinking about.
So yea guys any help will be much appreciated
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As a Muslim, I advise you not to ruin your friendship with her by uttering anything like that, because because Muslim girls don't do casual relationships so she will distance herself from you
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It's a road you don't want to go down, accepting her as a friend is the best possible thing you could do. I know from experience, most Muslim families are very conservative and strict.
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Would advise moving on by either avoiding her or by friendzoning yourself before she does it for you - it's easier when you impose the friendzone on yourself rather than having it forced on you. Don't pursue her...
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Honestly, I wouldn't advise it. If she's shown no interest in you already, she's either not interested or doesn't do casual relationships.

Move on.
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This is a tricky one because you don't know her personality and whether she would date or not. I suggest being friends with her and getting to know her before you make any moves because if her family or she is religious then she's not going to want to date and may have to break up later on should you guys get into a relationship

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i think that if u really love each other , u can just change ur religion and be muslim.

where are u from?
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what course are you on?
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I think I'm just going to have to reside to the friendzone, but it'll be hard she is such a nice person that she'll always talk to you and make you feel welcome, but I feel like if I'm always around her I am going to do something stupid. She is such a hard person not to fall for.

This is the strangest situation for me, I'm normally in control and can act calm and collected, but with her, jeez I am embarrassing to say the least
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I advise you to keep her as a ''FRIEND'' only I know a lot of Muslim families and they are very conservative.
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I know a girl who has a scarf and shes been out with a white boy. Girls are girls. Talk to her like you normally would and generally just treat it as if she wasn't muslim. You're worrying too much.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hey guys, there is this girl on my course she is Muslim (she wears the headscarf), absolutely stunning, and super friendly. She is the first really good looking girl to be friendly, funny and kind but also super smart. Basically I am falling for her, but like I said she is Muslim. What do I do? She'll be hard to ignore whilst I am on my course with her, and she really is a rarity for me.

I get attention from other girls, but she is the first one that I keep thinking about.
So yea guys any help will be much appreciated
Is she a strict conservative muslim? A liberal western adjusted muslim?

Makes a big difference
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i think that if u really love each other , u can just change ur religion and be muslim.

where are u from?
Why would he change his region, why can't she change her religion? Also attraction isn't love😂

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Just don't.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hey guys, there is this girl on my course she is Muslim (she wears the headscarf), absolutely stunning, and super friendly. She is the first really good looking girl to be friendly, funny and kind but also super smart. Basically I am falling for her, but like I said she is Muslim. What do I do? She'll be hard to ignore whilst I am on my course with her, and she really is a rarity for me.

I get attention from other girls, but she is the first one that I keep thinking about.
So yea guys any help will be much appreciated
Just force yourself to get over her.

Even if you and her become bf & gf, "no sex before marriage?.....k bai then"
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Just force yourself to get over her.

Even if you and her become bf & gf, "no sex before marriage?.....k bai then"
Do you know what if she was serious about me, I think I'd wait...
What the hell is happening to me?:afraid::blushing:
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hey guys, there is this girl on my course she is Muslim (she wears the headscarf), absolutely stunning, and super friendly. She is the first really good looking girl to be friendly, funny and kind but also super smart. Basically I am falling for her, but like I said she is Muslim. What do I do? She'll be hard to ignore whilst I am on my course with her, and she really is a rarity for me.

I get attention from other girls, but she is the first one that I keep thinking about.
So yea guys any help will be much appreciated
Usually, if you see a girl wearing a headscarf, you'd think that she must be religious. However, this is not always the case (I call it hypocrisy).

Anyway, you'll probably be able to find out if she's the "dating" type by getting to know her a bit better. If she is, and you get on well, then good luck to you. The chances are that, if she's willing to date you, then she's up for the other stuff too.

The one problem that you will have to face, if things develop, will be her parents. I mean, most Muslim parents tend to be strict, prejudiced and all the rest of it. That's where things could (and most likely will) go wrong.

Good luck.
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i think that if u really love each other , u can just change ur religion and be muslim.
:lolwut: he just met her
Why would he change his religion just because he came across a beautiful girl?
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Screw it I am not going to post anonymously, apparently it has to be moderated. So i'll repost what I tried to post.

I think I am just going to have to reside in the dreaded friendzone, but it will be hard , she is such a nice person that'll she always talk to you and make you feel welcome, but I feel like if I am always around her I am going to do something stupid. She is such a hard person not to fall for!

This is such a strange situation for me, I am normally in control, cool and collected, but with her, jeez, I am quite frankly embarrassing.
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This is one reason Muslims will often be consisted as outsiders in Western countries.
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