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the way girls dress and relationships

hello

just wanted some opinion. if girls dress really tarty in short skirts or tight clothing, or bright makeup, is this attractive to men? i mean my bfs often will look at girls dressed like this, but they often get annoyed if i dress the same way. why is this? and why do men prefer relationships with girls who dress this way? if i wear tighter clothes will this get me a bf?

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Reply 1

On a physical level, I suppose that girls in tight clothes are more attractive, but I don't think many guys would want their girlfriend going around with them looking like a tart.

The answer is, it's hard not to look at girls wearing slutty clothes, but they're not the sort of girls you'd like to go on a date with.

Reply 2

simple: it's about control.

when your bfs are with you then want to to cover up because you're "theirs", they don't want other men looking at you.

Reply 3

Anonymous
hello
and why do men prefer relationships with girls who dress this way? if i wear tighter clothes will this get me a bf?


Erm....i wouldnt prefer a girl who dressed like a tart, its just telling about someones behaviors. Wearing tighter clothes may get you more attention, but not always the right kind.

Reply 4

But this rather begs the queston, do you WANT to go out looking like a tart?

Reply 5

but if men like women to dress like this, surely this will get me a bf?
i mean you guys have said, men dont want their gfs looking like a tart, but it is these girls that get the most attention from guys and bfs.

i think i'd feel embarrassed going to uni weaingin skinny ('skintight') jeans with stillettos, and tops which are so tight (not necessarilty low ) that show the shappe of the breast. but men seem to like girls that dress like this.

decent girls who wear looser or more covered up clothes might be attractive but no one wants to date tehm. which is better and what would you think if you saw two girls, one dressed nicely and the other dressed tightly

Reply 6

Anonymous
but if men like women to dress like this, surely this will get me a bf?
i mean you guys have said, men dont want their gfs looking like a tart, but it is these girls that get the most attention from guys and bfs.

i think i'd feel embarrassed going to uni weaingin skinny ('skintight') jeans with stillettos, and tops which are so tight (not necessarilty low ) that show the shappe of the breast. but men seem to like girls that dress like this.

decent girls who wear looser or more covered up clothes might be attractive but no one wants to date tehm. which is better and what would you think if you saw two girls, one dressed nicely and the other dressed tightly


Since when did wearing tight jeans or a top that fits mean you're not a decent girl? That's absolute rubbish.

Reply 7

Anonymous
decent girls who wear looser or more covered up clothes might be attractive but no one wants to date tehm.


that's not true.

would you prefer if a guy liked you because you're wearing clingfilm, or for who you are as a person?

Reply 8

so do you think it is possible to be a decent girl, and also to start wearing really tight clothes so i can get more men?

Reply 9

Thud
that's not true.

would you prefer if a guy liked you because you're wearing clingfilm, or for who you are as a person?


yes but men would be more likely to want to get to know you as a person if you were a hot looking girl wearing clingfilm.

Reply 10

Anonymous
so do you think it is possible to be a decent girl, and also to start wearing really tight clothes so i can get more men?


There's a difference between wearing a tshirt and 'really tight clothes'. Besides you're completely contradicting yourself - it's so indecent to wear tight clothes yet it's decent to try and 'get more'? :confused: Make up your mind.

I'm sure some men will object to this soon, they're not all just after sex you know.

Reply 11

bunthulhu
Since when did wearing tight jeans or a top that fits mean you're not a decent girl? That's absolute rubbish.


The OP seems to have a different idea of "slutty" clothes, and that everyone who doesn't wear baggy jeans and huge hoodies have no morals.

Reply 12

Anonymous
yes but men would be more likely to want to get to know you as a person if you were a hot looking girl wearing clingfilm.


are you really gonna tell me this looks hot?
http://www.floppytaco.com/i/uploads/Hot-Girl-1012.jpg

;no;


just wear regular jeans, maybe a "skinny fit" top (they're not usually too tight) and "nice" guys (ie. ones who don't just wanna shag you then dump you) will probably like you. look like a slag and you'll get treated like one.

Reply 13

Pendulum
The OP seems to have a different idea of "slutty" clothes, and that everyone who doesn't wear baggy jeans and huge hoodies have no morals.


In which case the problem is far more likely to be her attitude than her dress sense :rolleyes:

Reply 14

Just because your blokes have stared at these women in the past, doesn't mean they want to actually be with them.

Reply 15

where did i say it was indecent? i didnt say that girls who dress in revealing ways have no morals. im assuming thats what men think though, thats why they like them.
i find it a bit embarrassing, not that im fat or anything, i just am not sure i'd feel comfortable revealing my body in skintight clothes. but if this is what men look for when choosing a gf, perhaps it would be beneficial? many of my friends have met nice men this way.

Reply 16

T-shirts really dont have to be that tight to show the shape of the breast, and I personally wouldnt say tight tshirts are tarty, in comparison to ones that are very low cut (They also arent necessarily tarty, but probably more so than ordinary tight tshirts) You seem to be saying two very different things in different posts. Please clarify?

Reply 17

I also forgot to say that you are missing the point, you shouldnt dress differently and be uncomfortable to try and get men, just dress how you do and stop trying to change just to get men.

Reply 18

Anonymous
where did i say it was indecent?


Anonymous
decent girls who wear looser or more covered up clothes


2+2=4, it was implied!

Reply 19

i dont want some tarty girl after all relationships are more than sex and physical attraction. girls like this get looked at because theres no need for the imagination so no thaught is required like other girls :p: