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Reply 40

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Anonymous

if the clothing is skintight and revealing then is it really appropriate for wearing to lectures? if the clothing is not skintight, then it is not relavent to the thread.

We're not in school any more, people wear what they want. There's no dress code.

Besides, if you turn up to a lecture and you're actually stressing about how people are dressed, you need to pay more attention to the lecturer.

Reply 41

dh00001

16

paniking, i dont know what that means :frown:

Reply 42

Meep!

9

OP, seriously, what is the point of this? Trying to be someone you're not just so you can get a bf is NEVER a clever thing to do. Dressing in well-fitting clothes is always good, no-one can fault it. Showing a bit of skin's good, covering yourself up completely in a tent is not a necessity for a 'decent' girl.There is a line, however, between well-fitting, and tarty. I'd define tarty clothes as those which actually look as though you're wearing a size too small, and as clothes which show FAR more of your underwear than I want to see. People just look bad in these clothes. I personally avoid them. Like the plague. I also avoid lecturers. And librarians.

Especially the librarians...

Reply 43

grace

15

Anonymous

wow hey thats so mature.

im not fat or have any problems, in fact im size 8 with a nice body. i just find it a bit gross to see all these girls hanging out of their clothes, even only going to uni, in tiny miniskirts, revealing and skintight clothes, i find it shameful and embarrassing. yet my bfs have often looked at these girls dressed in this way. in fact the other day i went out in knee length boots and leggings and my bf wouldnt speak to me.

men either you let us women dress like hookers or you stop looking at girls who do.

erm, you were talking about tight jeans, heels and tops which 'show the shape of your breasts'....so, pretty normal clothes. Now you're talking about people hanging out of their clothes :confused:

i say this without an ounce of disrespect, but are you by any chance a muslim or of middle-eastern or similar descent? because i know in cultures like that, what's considered 'slutty' clothes is quite different to what the western world considers slutty. Maybe that's where some of your confusion comes from.

Reply 44

bunthulhu

14

dh00001

paniking, i dont know what that means :frown:

Top right corner :wink:

Although I suspect it may be too late!

Reply 45

high priestess fnord

9

I usually wear whatever clothes are clean and on the top of the pile so that will be jeans and a tshirt (usually too big). then every now and again i have to remind everyone that contrary to popular belief im not actually one of the guys. so i go shopping and by something really outragous, last time it was a corset and an above the knee skirt. if my bf had a problem with me wearing that outfit then he would have been dumped by now for being overly possesive and insecure.

Reply 46

dh00001

16

bunthulhu

Top right corner :wink:

Although I suspect it may be too late!

but i want to stay :frown:

Reply 47

Anonymous #1

OP

what does it say about girls who choose to wear sprayed on skintight clothes?

what does it say about the men that look at these girls?

is it morally wrong to dress like a hooker in order to get men?

Reply 48

Bluelight

13

my gf wears tightish clothes sometimes and short shorts and miniskirts but she's far from tarty. But I hate her doing it when im not around because you know what other guys are like, they try it every time , and I hate it. I think im justified im feeling like this aswell, because my g wouldnt like other girls trying it with me.

Reply 49

Anonymous #1

OP

bunthulhu

We're not in school any more, people wear what they want. There's no dress code.

Besides, if you turn up to a lecture and you're actually stressing about how people are dressed, you need to pay more attention to the lecturer.

do you think the girls sitting in front of you with thongs and g strings hanging out the top of their low rise jeans would assume the people sitting behind were paying attention to the class? same thong really?

Reply 50

dh00001

16

are you trying to make a point?

Reply 51

high priestess fnord

9

Bluelight

my gf wears tightish clothes sometimes and short shorts and miniskirts but she's far from tarty. But I hate her doing it when im not around because you know what other guys are like, they try it every time , and I hate it. I think im justified im feeling like this aswell, because my g wouldnt like other girls trying it with me.

surely you feel just a little bit smug that so many guys want her but your the one who gets to see her naked?

Reply 52

Lady Venom

14

it will probs get you the wrong type of boyfriend.

Reply 53

Anonymous #1

OP

Bluelight

my gf wears tightish clothes sometimes and short shorts and miniskirts but she's far from tarty. But I hate her doing it when im not around because you know what other guys are like, they try it every time , and I hate it. I think im justified im feeling like this aswell, because my g wouldnt like other girls trying it with me.

why would men be more likely to 'try it' with a girl dressed in 'tightish clothes and short shorts and miniskirts' ?

what is the underlying assumption that you are making about mens opinions of girls who dress this way?

Reply 54

Anonymous #1

OP

high priestess fnord

surely you feel just a little bit smug that so many guys want her but your the one who gets to see her naked?

depend on how revealing her clothes are, as to whether he is the only one to know what she looks like naked

Reply 55

xxsarahjwxx

My bf doesnt have a problem with me wearing short skirts....in fact he asks me too....lol but i wear them with hoodies so you cant really call me a slut. I dont really wear makeup either....

The general rule i believe is legs or cleavage, not both. Go easy on the make-up and BANG you're a good looking, respectable lady.
But, if wearing tight clothes is not you then dont try, you wont pull it off. Try it, see how you feel and if you feel ok then go for it. But wear what you feel comfortable in and stop worrying what everyone else thinks.

If you think that wearing tight clothes is the only way to attract a man, what does that say about the calibre of men that you're attracting? Clothes shouldn't matter in serious friendships/relationships so stop worrying!

Reply 56

FadedJade

15

Seriously, stop being stupid. Actually read the answers to this thread and you will see your quesions have been answered several times over.

1) Wear what the hell you want.
2) Stop caring what what you think men want as you obviously don't seem to get understand what is clearly being said to you.
3) Repeat steps 1) and 2)

Reply 57

amie

14

Bluelight

my gf wears tightish clothes sometimes and short shorts and miniskirts but she's far from tarty. But I hate her doing it when im not around because you know what other guys are like, they try it every time , and I hate it. I think im justified im feeling like this aswell, because my g wouldnt like other girls trying it with me.

I don't get this. Surely if you're secure in your relationship, it doesn't matter if other people 'try it' with your girlfriend because you know she's only interested in you? I'm not saying I like people trying it with my boyfriend, but I don't get worked up about it or 'hate' the situation because I know nothing's going to happen there.

So then, what does it matter if she wears miniskirts when she's not with you?

Reply 58

Anonymous #1

OP

what about generally very tight clothes, but no skin?

and also do all men find revealing and tight clothes attractive on women?

Reply 59

high priestess fnord

9

Anonymous

depend on how revealing her clothes are, as to whether he is the only one to know what she looks like naked

please say your joking?!

as long as shes wearing a bra under her fitted tshirt and knickers under her miniskirt to prevent britney moments then there is plenty left to the imagination.

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