the way girls dress and relationships

but admit it when you walk down stairs in a new miniskirt or *insert garment here* you would be dissapointed if he didnt appreciate it at least a tiny bit.

like fnord said, men tend to like being masculine by comparison to women, in actions and looks. eg a feminine acting girl will make a man feel more masculine, and he will like her because of this.

i agree with the person who said 'chances are, its looks that attracted him to get to know you in the first place' regardless of clothes. however, clothes play a part in it - would a guy really approach a shabby dressed woman? would he rathr approach a girl with a nice face, great breasts clearly visible through a skintight lowcut t shirt or nice legs visible under a super short miniskirt? short step away from skintight jeans with a thong hanging out the back?
men tend to be unable to distinguish between lust and genuine love - hence the expression love at first SIGHT.
in addition, like fnord said, men tend to like being masculine by comparison to women, in actions and looks. eg a feminine acting girl will make a man feel more masculine, and he will like her because of this. similarly a man looking at a woman in revealing clothes, clearly showing round breasts and an hourglass figure emphasises the difference between his and her gender so he feels more manly and assumes she is a real woman.

Puh-lease. Your stereotypes about male brains are insulting and ill-informed, as are your descriptions of women.

Of course, if you dress in a bin bag, nobody's going to be attracted to you. But there are ways of dressing reasonably modestly that still look nice and won't exactly turn men off. It's totally possible to look lovely without showing off every asset you have (or don't, in some cases). Wearing clothing that screams for attention will certainly get it, but that's not necessarily the right sort of attention if you're after a great relationship.

but those saying 'ooh my bf doesnt mind me looking like roadkill' chances are, a) you didnt meet him while looking like roadkill and b) youd be offended if he said 'you look like roadkill. that girl in the miniskirt is way hotter than you i know because i can see her breasts and legs. however you have a nice persoanlity and i prefer personality over looks therefore i can overlook you looking like roadkill, especially compared to that hottie.' c) who would you prefer your bf to be alone with more: a hot girl in a miniskirt and low cut top and stillettos OR a hot girl in a polo neck sweater and bootcut jeans.

but those saying 'ooh my bf doesnt mind me looking like roadkill' chances are, a) you didnt meet him while looking like roadkill and b) youd be offended if he said 'you look like roadkill. that girl in the miniskirt is way hotter than you i know because i can see her breasts and legs. however you have a nice persoanlity and i prefer personality over looks therefore i can overlook you looking like roadkill, especially compared to that hottie.' c) who would you prefer your bf to be alone with more: a hot girl in a miniskirt and low cut top and stillettos OR a hot girl in a polo neck sweater and bootcut jeans.

but those saying 'ooh my bf doesnt mind me looking like roadkill' chances are, a) you didnt meet him while looking like roadkill and b) youd be offended if he said 'you look like roadkill. that girl in the miniskirt is way hotter than you i know because i can see her breasts and legs. however you have a nice persoanlity and i prefer personality over looks therefore i can overlook you looking like roadkill, especially compared to that hottie.' c) who would you prefer your bf to be alone with more: a hot girl in a miniskirt and low cut top and stillettos OR a hot girl in a polo neck sweater and bootcut jeans.

dont you feel uncomfortable around other girls in revealing clothes? i have a much better figure than some of the girls i see parading around with all their midriff and cleavage and legs exposed in the middle of winter. but they get more attention.

and like you all have said, you get to know somene depending on how they look. no one has attempted to refute the idea of the probability of meeting a nice guy being higher if you are dressed revealingly

Since when did wearing tight jeans or a top that fits mean you're not a decent girl? That's absolute rubbish.

but if men like women to dress like this, surely this will get me a bf?

Yep, good old Mr. Syphilis.