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Finding it difficult to cope with the change of persoanlity

I'm not really looking for answers with this, just general comments

I went out with my ex bf for about 18 months. He was very attached to me because he didn't have many friends and his family weren't that close, so he kind of felt that he only had me. He would always text me, ring me every night and spend lots of money on me. As a person, he was genually very shy and fairly quiet. For problems with my parents, we had to split up.

Anyway, a few months on I am now in another relationship. The guy i'm with now means a lot to me, but he is quite different to my first bf. He has a lot more confidence, loads of really close friends and is really close to his family. It makes me feel that he isn't that close to me. Things my ex would have done for me, he wouldn't. I know that everyone is different, but i did like the "clingyness" that my ex offered me. My ex would always make time for me as my current bf doesnt :frown:

I don't know what to do??

Reply 1

Zerforax

Find a new clingy bf...
certain guys like high maintence girls, obv the new one isnt as fussed to spend all his time/money/effort on you...
either deal with it or move on?