I think a crush develops when you find something you really like about a person, usually a combination of things like their appearance, how they treat you, how you can talk to them. Perhaps it could even purely be on an apperance level, or a desire level - you may find qualities that you want to be or you want to find in a partner.
When I get all excited by a phonecall or text, going to see them brings a big smile to my face, laugh when people ask me about them, and insist that, "No but he's a really good guy so I'm perfectly happy being just friends!". Then discuss his attractive traits rather too logically. Cos friends do that like
Some of my friends are like..."Ooo he's fit..." I don't see celebs in that way! Lol.!
:dito: I'm *never* attracted to someone without knowing them first, I find it physically impossible - which is pretty good I guess.
Except for the following: Johnny Depp and Gael Garcia Bernal. I don't 'fancy' them, but I do think they are exceptionally attractive men with amazing acting talent.
:dito: I'm *never* attracted to someone without knowing them first, I find it physically impossible - which is pretty good I guess.
Except for the following: Johnny Depp and Gael Garcia Bernal. I don't 'fancy' them, but I do think they are exceptionally attractive men with amazing acting talent.
There a few celebs that are attractive, but I don't actually fancy them.
And I agree with you on the bit about without knowing them first.