Is she right?

because he ignores me when we're in a group and talks to the other people but never directly to me and always seems like hes nervous when I talk to him on his own, like he'd like to get away.

he likes u! :biggrin:

Reply 4

Surely he wouldn't be so rude to me if he did like me? I just saw him at dinner and he was looking at me, then when I looked at him he looked away. He looked moody if anything.

Reply 5

The fact that he can't keep eye contact with you,and is nervous when you speak to him alone,strongly suggests he likes you.

Reply 6

Who?

It's obvious he likes you.

Reply 7

Give it some time and he should sort out his feelings. if your friend is right: he will make a move in time.

Time is the only answer I can give. :redface:

Reply 8

Choccielatte

Give it some time and he should sort out his feelings. if your friend is right: he will make a move in time.

Time is the only answer I can give. :redface:

unless he's shy,then he won't make any moves.

Reply 9

he wont... he thinks i dont like him!! i rejected him once before - he avoids doing everything with me, like i asked him to come out tonight & he seems really reluctant :-(

Reply 10

tesh^^

unless he's shy,then he won't make any moves.

If he cares enough about her, he will over come his shyness for her. Otherwise he doesn't care enough for her if he isn't prepared to overcome his nerves.

Reply 11

General Mullet

Choccielatte

If he cares enough about her, he will over come his shyness for her. Otherwise he doesn't care enough for her if he isn't prepared to overcome his nerves.

Wrong. It isn't as easy as that.

Reply 12

Profesh

Anonymous

he wont... he thinks i dont like him!! i rejected him once before - he avoids doing everything with me, like i asked him to come out tonight & he seems really reluctant :-(

The pathos of your predicament just escalated to farcical proportions.

Reply 13

Choccielatte

If he cares enough about her, he will over come his shyness for her. Otherwise he doesn't care enough for her if he isn't prepared to overcome his nerves.

that wasn't true in my case,i really liked the girl,but i was too shy to make any moves,shes gone,and we'v lost contact.Still think about her alot though.

Reply 14

tesh^^

that wasn't true in my case,i really liked the girl,but i was too shy to make any moves,shes gone,and we'v lost contact.Still think about her alot though.

I'm just saying that if his feelings are very strong for her then he will rather than face the prospect of letting her get away :redface:

I know some pretty shy guys who have gone to incredible lengths to get a girl.

Reply 15

He did - he used to call me almost every day from another country when he was on holiday, came to the same university as me... tried really hard to keep me in his life but I made it clear I wasn't interested. Now i am, and he's not! (i think anyway)

Reply 16

Anonymous

Ah.

Well I feel awful to say it but it really is your fault now.

You could try going to the same lengths he did and hope he doesn't reject you?

Reply 17

Hmm you may of hurt his feelings,maybe apologise and say why u 'rejected' him,and ask him if you can start from scratch.

Reply 18

General Mullet

Sounds like you are only interested in him because he isn't interested in you. Maybe he is better off being left alone.

Reply 19