Okay i see him a lot at family events and he's really cool and cute.
I call him my "cousin" but i guess he's just a relative.
He's my mum's brothers wife's brother's son.
Is it weird/incest that i kinda like him?
What even is he to me?
Please don't be mean
You don't share the same blood so not really.
He ain't even closely related. Don't know what the fuss is about?
he isn't actually related to you at all I don't think
He's not blood related, so no.
These days you really cannot tell who is related to whom. With second and third marriages and step kids it is complicated. In theory, it is easy to not know you are dating someone who is related by blood (or semen)
I personally wouldn't care either way.
Doesn't bother me; any tabooness might be hot, I suppose?
There isn't though.
He is not related to you but it is a bit of a 'close to home' partner choice. What if it all goes pear-shaped? Normally that wouldn't matter as you'd go your seperate ways and shudder when you reminisce about that relationship that got messy. If you pursue a relationship with this guy, and it turns out it's not for life, you will be encountering him forevermore at family events. Cringe!
From wife onwards the creepiness of it just disappeared.
It's fine OP.