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Guy stressing me out!

Hey everyone hoping for some help as this is really stressing me out! Basically before Christmas I met this guy through a society at uni, we got on really well and went out a few times. He talked to me loads on msn and txtd me through the christmas holidays, came back in january and he asked me out a few more times to the cinema and for a meal. Then he started cancelling on me, about 2 hrs before we were supposed to go out, he did this about 4 times for no particular reason other than he was busy. This is where I thought he started playing games with me and messing me around. He still texted me and talkd to me on msn but not as much. On our 'dates' he paid and stuff and was really sweet but we never kissed or anything i think we r both shy. Anyway the last 2 weeks he's been really distant and we were supposed to go out on tuesday but he didn't bother texting me about it. So i sent him a message on tuesday saying i take it we're not going out 2nite if u were busy you could have said i just get the feeling your messing me around. I haven't heard from him since, stupid thing is that even though I feel he's messing me around I still really like him! I don't know whether to contact him again or just to leave it, he knows I like him and I don't get whats going on! Any advice?

Reply 1

Does he like you back?

Reply 2

well he has never actually said that he likes me i just kind of assumed it when we went out on 'dates.' So i'm not sure really, he does seem to have issues with relationships though i think possibly a fear of commitment or something but he hasnt said that!

Reply 3

ask him.

Reply 4

Anonymous
well he has never actually said that he likes me i just kind of assumed it when we went out on 'dates.' So i'm not sure really, he does seem to have issues with relationships though i think possibly a fear of commitment or something but he hasnt said that!


You have to ask him if he likes you or not because you might have got the wrong message.