what does it mean if.............

Anonymous #1

he says:

you are perfect
playfully flirts

bearing in mind we're friends

Reply 1

bunthulhu

Guess!

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

The conversation has already come up - and we agreed to be only friends - but this stuff always comes up

Reply 3

bunthulhu

Well give us some more detail. Why did you agree to only be friends?

Reply 4

L0RA

That you more than likely fancy each other?

I never understand when people 'agree to be friends' if you like each other you should have fun while you're young (listen to the pensioner :wink:

)

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

I don't date - religious reasons

Reply 6

bunthulhu

Well then why are you asking?

He obviously likes you, even you know that, but you're not going to do anything about it, so case closed.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

coz i don't know what to do - i like him as a friend - don't want to lose the friendship - how do you deal with it?

Reply 8

chupacabras

Well it could mean that he's a secret agent working for the government and he flirts to throw off any counter agents from his trail by giving the impression that hes a normal guy.
More likely though (not that the above is impossible) he likes you and would like to be more than friends.

Reply 9

ShinyApple

bunthulhu

Well then why are you asking?

He obviously likes you, even you know that, but you're not going to do anything about it, so case closed.

File it away, we're done here.

Reply 10

bunthulhu

Anonymous

coz i don't know what to do - i like him as a friend - don't want to lose the friendship - how do you deal with it?

Do nothing, you said you'd already discussed it, so he knows you're not interested. Ignore his advances and he'll get bored.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

okay i'll do that - hopefully it works

thanks :smile:

Reply 12

Anon80008

Out of interest, how can you not date for religious reasons?

Reply 13

Nix!

Wez

Out of interest, how can you not date for religious reasons?

Incase they are stuck down for touching.

OP, at least be kind and tell him to back off.

Reply 14

khil

Anonymous

I don't date - religious reasons

What are these religious reasons? Consider whether it's just tradition and culture that got mixed up and labelled "Religion" - or whether it's actually religion. Not to insult your reasons/religion, but with Islam/Sikhism sort of religions, often a lot of culture does get mixed up into them I've noticed - or that is my impression anyway.

I know Muslims aren't meant to date, but I've met Muslims who are dating. I have a Sikh friend who doesn't date, but I think that's cultural as opposed to religious. I've met my bf lol, who had actually wanted to court a girl, and not date (we're Christians).

Reply 15

holly_golightly

He lurrrves you

Reply 16

General Mullet

he wants some

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

I did tell him to back off

Its going okay I guess --- I will see how this goes - if it comes to a point that I can't bear it--- I will just end the friendship