whats this all about?

hey
basically i went out with this girl a couple of times. We got on really well, and she did tell me she liked me etc. On the 3rd date i went out with her and some of her flat mates. I'm not particularly comfortable in groups and am rather shy generally so i kind of withdrew and acted slightly weird. She hadn't really seen that side to me. Anyways she didn't speak to me after that, i tried to call her etc. So its been over a month since then. Anyways bumped into her last night. I would have expected it to be awkward, and that she would have gone out of her way to avoid me. Instead she started talking to me, it was only brief but we had a good chat, just catching up and stuff.
Im wondering what her motives are
-whether she realised she was a bit harsh to cut off contact with me
-maybe she was slightly drunk and perhaps woulndt have done the same had she been sober
-whether she wants me back etc etc....

I would like to see her again

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

maybe it was to do with what her friends thought- she had alot of time to think about what and why she didnt talk to you or reply txts etc.

Reply 2

lawzer

dont show 2 much inetrest in her now, a little as in your ok but show the fact your independet and you have alife without her. And she'll probably be attracted by that. In her head shes giving you a second chance, but dont go cold neither, act like your not too bothered.

Reply 3

CorpusNinja

why are you complaining? you should pretend nothing happened since you have no proof that she was avoiding you purposely.

Reply 4

Yoda

I'd go with the "her friends don't like you" one. Drop her a text she can reply to in her own time, and just leave her after that. Friends can have a big effect on a girl's decision.