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eeeeeeeek some quick advice needed!

i know this is all trivial and all, but there's this guy at work and there's a spark between us.
anyway, i got his number off a mate the other day and text him. he didnt text back, but spoke to me bout it the next day at work. text him again the other night cos i was bored. again he didnt text back.

so this morning, i was like, right i'll just text him, can always pretend the message was meant for someone else. so i said "mate, u free today? am proper bored!"

so he flaming went and rang me, when i was expecting not to hear from him, but i was in the shower. i text saying i was in the shower and he didnt text back. so anyway, should i ring him now or leave it??

i know it all seems a bit silly, but i proper wasnt expecting to hear back off him!!

Reply 1

ring him back?

Reply 2

Just call him back!!! It's not like you haven't spoken before.

Reply 3

i supose! i just dont want to seem like im makin all the first moves. which i am. haha

Reply 4

He's probably thinking." who the hell's this?" Now he thinks you're one of his mates and he's wondering why it's coming from a number he doesn't know.

To be fair hun, if he wanted you to have his number he'd have given it to you himself.. A guy I knew once passed my number to a couple of his mates and I was furious.

Call him. Let us know what he says.

Reply 5

well he knew it was me, he said the other day he was gona constantly stalk me now he's got my number. anyway, i rang him and he didnt answer!

Reply 6

ok so he just rang me back and said he was out atm, but asked if i wanted to go out for a drink if he got back at a decent time later!!

Reply 7

Sometimes you need to make the first moves. It'll pay off in the end :smile:

And? You gonna go for that drink? Do it!

Reply 8

course i am! and im gona make sure he tells noone at work lol! and my parents will love me cos he's 11 years older!