The Student Room Group

how do i make him notice me....?

hey, i really like this guy - i think he might like me, but i'm not sure. and i just wanted to know how i can subtly let him know that i do like him without being to scary and obvious - except the problem is that he's a bit of an authority figure (similar to a teaching position, but it's not as wrong if you get me?) so it's not like a case of just being able to talk to him loads, so i'm not quite sure what to do!

can anyone help?

Reply 1

depends what you mean by an authority figure? What does he do exactly?

Reply 2

Similar to a teaching position but not as wrong? Please explain, this comment worries me....

Reply 3

im in a similar position.....theres this teaching assistant who is always staring at me....and stares at my legs...but sometimes he completely blanks me. i said hello to him...he ignores me. then later on he tries to get my attention

Reply 4

I think he's just being friendly, many male teachers are like that.

Reply 5

Did you double post? There's another with exactly the same problem and similar wording. That's just not cool.

Reply 6

no she didnt double post

Reply 7

no, i didn't double post - no need to be worried, it's not wrong in that there aren't any laws against it (like there are with teachers and students) - he's just kind of the leader of a group im in. i duno if he's just being friendly cause i do catch him looking at me sometimes but then again maybe im just reading too much into it.

Reply 8

Well give it a shot. See him one on one and see what happens.

Reply 9

Is this guy your dad, or something?

Reply 10

ew no!

Reply 11

I am afraid that there is nothing u can do.... dont worry it will go away as fast as it came...

Reply 12

We can't really help you unless you elaborate a bit more on what his position is. Is he the leader of a soc, member of student council, resident tutor or what?