I want to !&*%

How do you get a guy who you don't see anymore to sleep with you? We text and interact on social media. We've slept together before but last time he tried to bang me I had a boyfriend so we didn't.

I'm thinking of upping my snapchat game because all I can think about is ******* him and I don't know how to orchestrate this. We left uni so don't bump into each other anymore! But I get so aroused thinking about it and thinking about how I'll slide onto him and f him so hard, I had to start using my toys because I get so frustrated wanting him.

What could a girl say or do to you to make you REALLY want her?

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Reply 1

william walker

3

Depends what he wants.

Reply 2

picklescamp

16

Original post by Anonymous

How do you get a guy who you don't see anymore to sleep with you? We text and interact on social media. We've slept together before but last time he tried to bang me I had a boyfriend so we didn't.

I'm thinking of upping my snapchat game because all I can think about is ******* him and I don't know how to orchestrate this. We left uni so don't bump into each other anymore! But I get so aroused thinking about it and thinking about how I'll slide onto him and f him so hard, I had to start using my toys because I get so frustrated wanting him.

What could a girl say or do to you to make you REALLY want her?

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telling him this should do the trick tbh

Reply 3

ice_man

3

message him "i still think of the fun we had together"

nothing wrong with being upfront, infact it turns us guy on even more

Reply 4

RainbowKiwi

16

Netflix and chill? Then make this face :sexface:

Reply 5

william walker

3

Original post by RainbowKiwi

Netflix and chill? Then make this face :sexface:

Reply 6

TorpidPhil

19

Original post by picklescamp

telling him this should do the trick tbh

Original post by ice_man

message him "i still think of the fun we had together"

nothing wrong with being upfront, infact it turns us guy on even more

+1

Would work for me.

Reply 7

DanB1991

17

he's a bloke... be quite blunt and if he wants to he shall be there!

Reply 8

mackemforever

17

Original post by Anonymous

How do you get a guy who you don't see anymore to sleep with you? We text and interact on social media. We've slept together before but last time he tried to bang me I had a boyfriend so we didn't.

I'm thinking of upping my snapchat game because all I can think about is ******* him and I don't know how to orchestrate this. We left uni so don't bump into each other anymore! But I get so aroused thinking about it and thinking about how I'll slide onto him and f him so hard, I had to start using my toys because I get so frustrated wanting him.

What could a girl say or do to you to make you REALLY want her?

Mods: please keep anon or delete!

How about "Want to come over and **** me later?".

That should do the trick.

Reply 9

little_wizard123

19

You sound like a guy pretending to be a girl :holmes:

Reply 10

AvaAdore

8

I think you're a guy from how you wrote this just because women aren't this completely clueless about their own sexual agency

If a guy has even the smallest attraction this will tend to be easy, if he isn't going for it he probably doesn't think you're that attractive sorry. I wouldn't go acting super desperate and throwing yourself at him either, have some dignity. If he gives you no signs, that's the only sign you need

Reply 11

Profesh

20

Spoiler

The 'direct' approach. Worked on me.

Reply 12

lustawny

6

I want to exclamation mark, ampersand, asterisk, percentage sign, as well.

Reply 13

jeremy1988

13

Well, did the two of you part on good terms? If he doesn't like you anymore, then it might be hard to convince him to sleep with you. I'm going to assume that you guys just drifted apart and it's awkward to talk to him now because it's been so long.

I would say that the first thing you should do is contact him and ask how he's doing, and maybe whether he's seeing anyone. If he's not seeing anyone, then you should look for an excuse to go where he is. Perhaps a play, an exhibit at an art museum, a job interview, etc. Then, you could mention that you're in town and you'd like to catch up with him over lunch.

If he accepts the invitation to lunch, then you should probably wear something nice, maybe get a haircut and try to look presentable and attractive (but nothing too formal or over the top). While you're having lunch, you could mention that you've been missing him, and mention that you were wondering if he would be interested in getting back together.

After you've been going out for a while, I'm sure the relationship would become physical over the natural course of time. There's really no point in rushing things, because you'll just scare the guy away if you seem too needy.