Is it just a dream?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him dearly. But for the past four weeks i've been dancing closely with this guy, who's really friendly. I had this dream the other night of during rehearsals he kissed me. I can't get it out of my head. Does it mean i like him, or is it just a dream? I just want the show to be over now so i don't have to dance with him and i can go back to feeling normal.

Reply 1

frank01277779

1

Gah. Surely you know if you like him or not? I've had "those" kind of dreams about best friends gf's, friends of mine who are lesbians, friends who in reality I don't see in that way at all...Maybe I just know who I find attractive or not.

I imagine you find him attractive, and obviously dancing is something that you get quite close to someone doing and so you have thought about him "like that" in your head, and are actually scared you'll do something and regret it.

Which is ok: as long as you don't do anything. Or if you do then hope your bf doesn't find out and you can live with the lie...

Reply 2

Joric

Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him dearly. But for the past four weeks i've been dancing closely with this guy, who's really friendly. I had this dream the other night of during rehearsals he kissed me. I can't get it out of my head. Does it mean i like him, or is it just a dream? I just want the show to be over now so i don't have to dance with him and i can go back to feeling normal.

I do not think it to be a dream.

Reply 3

fairycakes

12

maybe u do like him? but what really matters is how u act. if u really love ure bf, u'll forget the dream adn this boy after the show...

Reply 4

ßlαcksωαn

17

Maybe you're having second thoughts about you're relationship. Do you feel anything towards your dance partner when your around him?

Reply 5

faik_kheft

4

Dreams are just dreams. If you don't feel anything in real life, then it means absolutely nothing.

Reply 6

theflcgal

if you think you find him attractive in real life, would you honestly want to be with him instead of your boyfriend who you've been with so long? if you do find him attractive and cant forget this dream, for the sake of your relationship and to be fair on your boyfriend, you should probably stop seeing this other guy, or if thats not possible then avoid him as much as you can.

Is it just a dream?

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