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Bit silly really... sorry! not sure what to do with hands haha

Argh this is going to sound so silly! Basically, whenever im kissing my boyfriend i never know what to do with my arms lol. His arms are all over me, but i get all self-conscious and not really sure what to do with them.. what should you do to boys thats not too scary..? :s-smilie:

Reply 1

Spleh

I would recommend clamping them behind his back, and if you are feeling cheeky then softly caressing his rear end.

Reply 2

Nix!

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There's thousands of things you can do! Grab his arse, run them up his back, put them around his neck.

...nah, that's pretty much it.

*cough* nads! *cough*

Reply 3

RoyalsFan

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I always like it when my girlfriend puts her arms around my neck, dunno why lol, but yeh there are a number of different things you can do really. Just go with the flow, and whatever feels comfortable. Chances are it will turn out good.

Reply 4

username47781

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I thought this meant something else then :biggrin:

Reply 5

StrangerthanEleven

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I like my face being touched when Im kissing :redface:

it just feels nice :smile:

Reply 6

StrangerthanEleven

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It's my life

I thought this meant something else then :biggrin:

haha guess we know whos dirty minded then :wink:

Reply 7

bone-machine

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depending on his height when standing up face to face a safe bet is loop your arms round his neck from there you can play with hair hair a bit, stroke back of neck/cheek......also easy for him to just rest his hands on your waist or stroke your bum/back..if sitting down put hand on his thigh..stroke squeeze..

*shrugs*.

hope those help.

Reply 8

username47781

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hayles101

haha guess we know whos dirty minded then :wink:

hehe well the slightest thing like that and my mind thinks oo err :p:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

thanks guys, might give some of those a try. lol IML, it wasnt meant to sound dirty at all.. :wink:

Reply 10

StrangerthanEleven

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It's my life

hehe well the slightest thing like that and my mind thinks oo err :p:

haha so your one of these people that will only read a thread if theres something 'saucy' in it :wink:

Reply 11

username47781

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hayles101

haha so your one of these people that will only read a thread if theres something 'saucy' in it :wink:

Yep, or something that even looks remotely like it :biggrin:

Reply 12

high priestess fnord

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It's my life

I thought this meant something else then :biggrin:

tbh putting your arms round him and holding him close is pretty standard. i like to let my hands wander though :wink:

Reply 13

Vampyrcorn

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I like to stick my fingers up my nose.

Reply 14

Mr_Velcro

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Put your hands around his neck, or under his chin maybe. You could just leave one hand resting on his chest.

Reply 15

-steph-

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You can put you hands around his neck or place them on his hips.

Reply 16

King Hippo

9

Grab his arse and take control. :biggrin:

Reply 17

Louise88

It's my life

I thought this meant something else then :biggrin:

I had a very similar thought lol :p:

Argh this is going to sound so silly! Basically, whenever im kissing my boyfriend i never know what to do with my arms lol. His arms are all over me, but i get all self-conscious and not really sure what to do with them.. what should you do to boys thats not too scary..?

There are lots of things you can do. You could run your hands through his hair, you could touch his face, put your hands around his neck, leave a hand on his chest, hold on to his sides/hips, you could run your hands up his back, you could run your hands lower if you so wish... the list is endless! You just need to find something that you are comfortable with.

I always run my hands through my boyfriends hair, well he actually told me that I pulled it lol but I didn't realise I was being so rough! He really likes it though so it's not a problem but I really like doing that. I also really like the whole arms around the neck thing, thats nice. It's just your own personal preference!