It hurts when my boyfriend does stuff - doing it wrong?

Hi everyone. Basically my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and he keeps wanting to finger me (sorry if this is too crude for anybody). I've recently let him try but it really hurts when he does, I think he may have the wrong area or something...I'm not very experienced in this, I've never had it done by someone before but should it hurt :confused:

I think he goes too far back but I don't know what to say to him because I don't want to tell him 'you're doing it wrong'.
Thankyou for reading this
x

Reply 1

bipersona

yes it is normal...first times are uncomfortable... just like sex.. u stretch to accomodate.... so keep at it

Reply 2

LipGloss

Suggest that he tries doing it at a different angle, because it's more pleasurable for you?

Reply 3

bone-machine

it may well be uncomfortable because your hymen is still in tact, or it may be uncomfortable because hes getting the angle wrong...i suggest seeing if you can touch yourself without it hurting ..if it is possible then you know its him that is at fault and with your new found knowledge of your own body you can simply guide his hand gently when hes down there, rather then say straight out 'your doing it wrong', chances are that he might be as inexperienced as you.. maybe his nails are too long??