Pairing off!

Is it just me and just here, or has anybody else noticed that there is a lot of pairing off into new relationships going on at the mo?
Mixed groups of mates who have hung round together since the start of year now seem to be going off in cosy twosomes, and I'm getting left out?
Is it the time of year or what?

Reply 1

Helenia

It's just your group of friends, probably. Different groups go through it at different times, but I definitely think that it can be a "trend" to get coupled up.

Reply 2

Emma_lu

My group went through this stage a couple of months ago... but now everyones deciding to be single again lol!

Reply 3

TopsyTurvey

Lizj

I know exactly how you feel! Lol.

It happened whilst I was in year 11.

And sort of still is now!

Don't worry about it though. just keep on going and smiling! That's what I did. Lol. That special person will be out there for u somewhere! Hehe!

Reply 4

Sianey

It's happening to my group of friends at the moment! And I've just split up with my boyfriend, so seem to be noticing it more. I think with us it's because we're all started going clubbing etc, and the group in general seems to have got a load closer. It's quite nice with most people, as long as they're not ditching the group to be together!

Reply 5

louisedotcom

It happens alot, It seems to happen most notably after you leave school and everyone goes in their different directions.
It them seems to happen again when everyone goes off to Uni or out to work.

People get pre-occupied with their boyfriends or girlfriends so it seems friends go their seperate ways if only temporarily.

You go through stages generally, from seeing friends all the time when their single to hardly ever seeing them when their attached.

Ive found that the older you get, the less it bothers you because you get to the point where you think, 'Meh' and just start to get on with your own life :smile:

Reply 6

kimble

This always happens around spring. Or I always find that it does ...

Reply 7

black-cat

hmmm, seems to be the opposite here... all my friends seem to be breaking up with the bfs/gfs lately... it's happened with at least 4 different couples in the last couple of months!

Reply 8

Minardi

louisedotcom

ive found that the older you get, the less it bothers you because you get to the point where you think, 'Meh' and just start to get on with your own life :smile:

Yeah, I'm there now. Ive just lost interest. Ive had 1 gf, lasted 5 months, but I'm now at a stage where I'm just not bothered about others being taken or about my own non-takenness. For some reason I'm just at a really happy stage as to relationships (not to other things, but thats another story) and if something comes along, so be it, if not... whatever. :biggrin: