Stop being a wuss. It's self indulgent. Many people have tio suffer the torment of looking at attractive people and having lust and not having what they want. I get it. We have this thing which is annoying, not being sarky, where we affect 'civilised' values, and we can't just go on what lust, biology and genetics, ie reproductive motives are telling us,. even though it may feel so right. So even people who seem like they are getting whatever or attractive are making it out, or acting more smug. Virtually everyone will have times of sexual frustration, it's how our atomized society is.