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need advice for attracting guys at uni

Just want some advice really. Im goin to uni to september and im feeling down in a way, Im a shy a girl and i have recently split up with my bf. Being in a relationship made me happier than ever and everyone noticed a difference in me and well i have been thinking about how im gonna get guy to like me at uni, even if i dont get a relationship i jus want guy mates. I just need ideas on how to make myself more confident or ways to approach guys. Thanks for any help

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Reply 1

sparkler

well, how did you get your last boyfriend??

and you're going to uni, will you be going into halls? you will inevitabley meet guy-friends there...

Reply 2

apricot

I met my ex over the net and we are still pretty close and yer i will be in halls. Im jus hoping that i will make some guy friends and hopefully one thing will lead to another with one of them. I have only had one bf so im not exactly confident when it comes to making the first move

Reply 3

sheryl06

why do you need a bf for?? From things that has gone on in my flat I would recommend not getting involved with someone you live with as it can cause problems.

Reply 4

username47781

Be yourself and take your time finding the right person, oh and make sure you get to know them first.

Reply 5

Nix!

Girls have it so much easier in the whole approaching game, especially at university.

You have nothing to worry about. If you want something/someone; go and get it.

Reply 6

apricot

I dont want to get involved with sum1 i live with cos that wudnt work out if we broke up. i dont like awkward situations

Reply 7

thegreatstupendo

It's easy to make friends with anyone at the beginning of uni, they guys will want to make friends with you just as much as you want to make friends with them. It'll just come naturally, there's no need to worry about it.

Reply 8

sufiankane

want to attract guys?
Rule number 1) Less is more, do not use too much make up and wear less clothes.
2) Talk to alot of people
3) give guys a 'taster' so the yearn and cringe and crave for more

Reply 9

apricot

well i wear basic make up neway. but wudnt wearin less clothes give the impression ur a slut who will sleep with ne1?

Reply 10

Zerforax

Do like a physics/comp science degree.. something with a high male ratio?
esp if thats the type you go for?

*this is not serious advice...

Reply 11

sufiankane

less clothes does not mean slut, it just emphasises the fact you are hot, assuming you are.

Reply 12

sufiankane

^^ no-one will complain to that.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

sufiankane

less clothes does not mean slut, it just emphasises the fact you are hot, assuming you are.

It depends how few clothes you wear, when you look at women with revealing tops and belt length skirts, you can't help but think she must be promiscuous.

Reply 14

lil'p

wearing short skirts may help

Reply 15

Bubblebee

Oh my lordy gosh!

Be a nice person, be yourself, don't change yourself to fit in with a percieved idea of how 18 year old girls should be, talk to people, don't be too caught up in the 'I need a boyfriend to confirm who I am' school of thought.

Reply 16

Jonesy_LJ

Can I be the first to make a joke about magnets?

Reply 17

Nix!

Jonesy_LJ

Can I be the first to make a joke about magnets?

What do you call a confused and depressed magnet?

...Bi-polar.

Reply 18

readyforaberequine07

You don't have to wear short skirts, especially if you're built like me (quite tall) and you look silly in them *points to self* I wear my skirts knee-length. Shows a sufficient amount of leg, but still is a bit of a teaser. Look happy and friendly. I laugh a lot (though not on hyena levels) around guys, and it makes one seem positive and such, which is nice.