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Hey all 
Well where do i start eh
...here goes.. basicly i have been friends with a guy for a year now but only since last year december we have been more close and more closer every time we talk. We text everyday, morning, afternoon and night-time before we go bed and i haven't texted and talked this much to anyone before, not even my life-time friends 
And he has told me that he is begining to like me more than friends and i'm begining to feel the same but i think we're just too scared to tell eachother our true feelings and what to do. I keep thinking about him but have no idea what to do. Only a few weeks ago my friend told me that him and me should be together that i've started to think more about him and hes told me the same...but i don't want to ruin the really good friendship i have with him (even though its gone kinda to a point, where we kinda talk like a couple to be) and we're both shy to say anything.....but another problem is that he lives really far away from me.
Any advice?
Thank you in advance.
Well where do i start eh
...here goes.. basicly i have been friends with a guy for a year now but only since last year december we have been more close and more closer every time we talk. We text everyday, morning, afternoon and night-time before we go bed and i haven't texted and talked this much to anyone before, not even my life-time friends And he has told me that he is begining to like me more than friends and i'm begining to feel the same but i think we're just too scared to tell eachother our true feelings and what to do. I keep thinking about him but have no idea what to do. Only a few weeks ago my friend told me that him and me should be together that i've started to think more about him and hes told me the same...but i don't want to ruin the really good friendship i have with him (even though its gone kinda to a point, where we kinda talk like a couple to be) and we're both shy to say anything.....but another problem is that he lives really far away from me.Any advice?
Thank you in advance.
Don't rush things - and let things take their natural course. If it feels right to you (and him) - then your relationship will find it's own level..
Do NOT listen to people who say "long-distance relationships don't work" - ldls' are subjective - they work for some - not for others.
Your dilemna is - "shall i take it to the next level"?
Your answer - "it'll go there itself if you allow it."
Good luck.
Do NOT listen to people who say "long-distance relationships don't work" - ldls' are subjective - they work for some - not for others.
Your dilemna is - "shall i take it to the next level"?
Your answer - "it'll go there itself if you allow it."
Good luck.
Thank you.
I'm just going to leave it how it is, and see what happens, whether its meant to be or not, whether it hurts, i'm just gonna let it be and allow it to happen if he choses to take the step further.
I'm just going to leave it how it is, and see what happens, whether its meant to be or not, whether it hurts, i'm just gonna let it be and allow it to happen if he choses to take the step further.
This was like the situation between me and my boyfriend. We were both getting to be more than friends, but too shy to admit it to each other! Finally, I was over at his house watching Blackadder and we were cuddling, and then... we kissed. It was amazing, and it felt so special because we hadn't talked about it or over-analysed it beforehand.
If it gets to the point where you just can't bear it any longer, then maybe mention meeting up? It'll be easier to initiate something (like holding hands, or hugging) when you're face to face.
Good luck.
Red xx
It was amazing, and it felt so special because we hadn't talked about it or over-analysed it beforehand.If it gets to the point where you just can't bear it any longer, then maybe mention meeting up? It'll be easier to initiate something (like holding hands, or hugging) when you're face to face.
Good luck.
Red xx
Little Girl Red
This was like the situation between me and my boyfriend. We were both getting to be more than friends, but too shy to admit it to each other! Finally, I was over at his house watching Blackadder and we were cuddling, and then... we kissed. It was amazing, and it felt so special because we hadn't talked about it or over-analysed it beforehand.
If it gets to the point where you just can't bear it any longer, then maybe mention meeting up? It'll be easier to initiate something (like holding hands, or hugging) when you're face to face.
Good luck.
Red xx
It was amazing, and it felt so special because we hadn't talked about it or over-analysed it beforehand.If it gets to the point where you just can't bear it any longer, then maybe mention meeting up? It'll be easier to initiate something (like holding hands, or hugging) when you're face to face.
Good luck.
Red xx
I heard that there was an episode of house where he watches blackadder.
so I put "House watching blackadder" into google and what do I get?
your anecdote! !!!
just tell him.. otherwise you'll regret it for the rest of your life!
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