Looked at my girlfriends phone

I will explain the whole story...

My and my girlfriend have been together about a year and a half. At the start of the relationship she had a male friend who she had been friends with since kids but he was ridiculously controlling of her, and on nights out he would do stuff like shove his tongue down her throat and grind on her. Also if he was out and drunk and she wasnt out he would send her dick picks... Just generally being a complete idiot and its quite obvious that he is into her.

Obviously I made it quite clear to my girlfriend that I wasn't comfortable with this behaviour, she agreed not to see this guy so much and everything was fine for a while. She stopped hanging around with him and if they saw each other out and about they would have a quick chat and that was it, everything was fine.

Last month I was working away for a week and during this week she was completely off... We would normally talk on the phone everyday if I am working away but she wouldn't ring on some days and would sometimes not answer my calls straight away when I rang.

Anyway she left her phone lying around last night so I just looked at it and found out that during this time she was meeting this idiot for coffee. This really p*ssed me off not really because of the fact that she met up with him but because when we rang later that evening I asked her what she had been up to that day and she never mentioned this guy so she basically lied to me.

I know a few of you will criticise that I looked at her phone and say I should forget that I saw these texts but I'm honestly just so p*seed off I couldn't forget them if I tried. To the point I don't even want to look at her at the minute.

I know a few of you will criticise that I looked at her phone and say I should forget that I saw these texts but I'm honestly just so p*seed off I couldn't forget them if I tried. To the point I don't even want to look at her at the minute.

You will have to tell her what you have seen, lack of trust aside she is being unfair

Lool, he sent her dick pics, he's into her and she's meeting him. Man better dump her before he becomes a reddit-esque sobstory

I will explain the whole story...

My and my girlfriend have been together about a year and a half. At the start of the relationship she had a male friend who she had been friends with since kids but he was ridiculously controlling of her, and on nights out he would do stuff like shove his tongue down her throat and grind on her. Also if he was out and drunk and she wasnt out he would send her dick picks... Just generally being a complete idiot and its quite obvious that he is into her.

Obviously I made it quite clear to my girlfriend that I wasn't comfortable with this behaviour, she agreed not to see this guy so much and everything was fine for a while. She stopped hanging around with him and if they saw each other out and about they would have a quick chat and that was it, everything was fine.

Last month I was working away for a week and during this week she was completely off... We would normally talk on the phone everyday if I am working away but she wouldn't ring on some days and would sometimes not answer my calls straight away when I rang.

Anyway she left her phone lying around last night so I just looked at it and found out that during this time she was meeting this idiot for coffee. This really p*ssed me off not really because of the fact that she met up with him but because when we rang later that evening I asked her what she had been up to that day and she never mentioned this guy so she basically lied to me.

I know a few of you will criticise that I looked at her phone and say I should forget that I saw these texts but I'm honestly just so p*seed off I couldn't forget them if I tried. To the point I don't even want to look at her at the minute.