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Are relationships always about sex, like are there any guys that aren't all about sex?


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No, yes.
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Sex is just a part of a relationship. Not every guy/person is all about sex and that's what relationships shouldn't be about anyway. There's more to it than just that
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NO they aren't, Sex is a bi-product, not a requirement. Generally a decent amount of guys will be "in it" for the relationship itself, not the sex.... That being said, we aren't too pleased being entirely denied it either, after all it's a pretty damn awesome activity... As long as it's still on the table it's not a main objective...
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Sex is an incredibly important aspect of a relationship. A bad sex life can negatively affect the wider relationship. So while it's not the be all, end all, most guys will at some point want to do it.... a fair amount :P
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A relationship without sex is just a friendship. Whilst a relationship certainly wouldn't be 100% about sex for me, if there wasn't regular sex I wouldn't hang around.
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Relationships aren't about sex for everyone, OP, but I think a lot of people will struggle without it. Do you not have a sex drive, or?

(Original post by WoodyMKC)
A relationship without sex is just a friendship. Whilst a relationship certainly wouldn't be 100% about sex for me, if there wasn't regular sex I wouldn't hang around.
Lol, charming.
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(Original post by 50shades_ofamy)
Are relationships always about sex, like are there any guys that aren't all about sex?


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I am a guy who isnt all about sex
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Relationships usually include sex, but aren't all about it - how much different things matter varies to different people. Many guys aren't all about sex, but most will want some in a relationship at some stage as will most girl - a minority however are asexual and may not want it at all.
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my relationship isn't all about sex
Just being with each other is enough - yeah at some point we will but our relationship isn't built on whether we have sex right now although some people love it
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What Reue said tbh.
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(Original post by WoodyMKC)
A relationship without sex is just a friendship.
Can an asexual couple never progress beyond being friends, then?
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While it's not all about sex.....

I want someone who I can go out and about with and have a cracking time plus someone I can just chill with.... who also ****s like an absolute psycho!!! not too much to ask for is it? :laugh:
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I suspect you're conflating 'necessary' with 'sufficient'.
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hun, you just got to find the right guy who will want you as a person to talk to and spend time with as well as want you for sex. a relationship has both things in it. one without the other is not the best thing tbh.
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(Original post by littlenorthernlass)
Relationships aren't about sex for everyone, OP, but I think a lot of people will struggle without it. Do you not have a sex drive, or?



Lol, charming.
Wouldn't be fair on either of us, I don't do cheating so rather than going and getting it elsewhere behind her back it'd be the right thing to just end the relationship.
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Well i guess sex is the pleasurable part of a relationship. Of course man and woman love the feeling of sex but obviously you are only doing it frequently. sex is just there to spice up a relationship, otherwise it would be completely dead. But of course your partner should love you for you and not use you for sex, and if they are using you... then drop that mother****ers arse on the floor.
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Well i guess sex is the pleasurable part of a relationship. Of course man and woman love the feeling of sex but obviously you are only doing it frequently. sex is just there to spice up a relationship, otherwise it would be completely dead.
If your relationship would be "dead" without sex then I don't think that it was much of a relationship to begin with...
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(Original post by 50shades_ofamy)
Are relationships always about sex, like are there any guys that aren't all about sex?


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No, they aren't, and yes, there are.

Granted, sex is very fun, but there are a lot of other things I like to do with my fiancee. Go for a walk, play on the park, listen to music, perform music, watch films... at the end of the day, sex is only a very small component of mine and her relationship.
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I agree with Reue.

(Original post by DanB1991)
While it's not all about sex.....

I want someone who I can go out and about with and have a cracking time plus someone I can just chill with.... who would also ****s like an absolute psycho!!! not too much to ask for is it? :laugh:
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