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Feeling so confused about my friend.

I have alot of anger and jealously issues and hate it when my best friend talks to anyone else, i realise how annoying and suffocating it is for her to have me constantly mad at her and i'm really trying to control myself as she told me that she holds back before talking to people because she is scared i will get annoyed at her. We're such close friends, talk for hours every night, see eachother every day etc etc but recently she's been moody with me and told me she needs space, gets irratable when i ask her if she's ok but is really happy around everyone else and has suddenly gone from being quiet and insecure to loud and chatty... in the space of like a week. So confused and worried that she no longer wants to be best friends with me.... what to do???

Reply 1

You have to give her space! Part of being friends with someone is trusting them- and to me it seems like you don't trust your friend. If you really like your friend, then you'll want what is best for her.

Reply 2

I agree, my friend is like that and I am seriously having problem with her. Give her some space and hang out with other people, after a week it should be cool.

Reply 3

Ok thanks.. do you reckon she'll come back to me? it's just i try to do everything for her and be a good best friend and then this happens :frown:

Reply 4

Maybe you are doing too much and she feels trapped. It's sort of having your mum nag you, she does it because she cares but sometimes you need space. If you are as close as you say then I think she will still be your friend but you really should spend some time apart (jus a lil :smile:)