Great guy/legend/funny....... but yet...

Sorry, another self-pitying rant again... Not meaning to be arogant but im a pretty sound chap, funny, easy-going, enjoyable company etc, dont think im that ugly... everyone tells me how easy-going i am........ BUT, i'm 19 and I don't think a girl has ever been attracted to me... Im just trying to get over my feelings for my best mate who just gave me an honest n touching rejection, clearly telling me our friendship rules. BUT, every girl who rejects me says 'ur a great guy', but WHY am i just incapable of turning a woman on? I don't think i ever have... ok, i have cerebral palsy, but all my pals tell me they dont see it coz im a kl mate; but WHY can't I just turn a girl on. EVERY rejection i've had seems to follow the lines of 'ur a rly sound n cool guy, but...' WHY can't someone tell me 'UR A BASTARD, BUT I WANNA **** UR BRAINS OUT!'??

Reply 1

Sunofnight

3

Eccentric Man

Sorry, another self-pitying rant again... Not meaning to be arogant but im a pretty sound chap, funny, easy-going, enjoyable company etc, dont think im that ugly... everyone tells me how easy-going i am........ BUT, i'm 19 and I don't think a girl has ever been attracted to me... Im just trying to get over my feelings for my best mate who just gave me an honest n touching rejection, clearly telling me our friendship rules. BUT, every girl who rejects me says 'ur a great guy', but WHY am i just incapable of turning a woman on? I don't think i ever have... ok, i have cerebral palsy, but all my pals tell me they dont see it coz im a kl mate; but WHY can't I just turn a girl on. EVERY rejection i've had seems to follow the lines of 'ur a rly sound n cool guy, but...' WHY can't someone tell me 'UR A BASTARD, BUT I WANNA **** UR BRAINS OUT!'??

You just need someone on the same wave length as you, knows what your going through etc.

Reply 2

Profesh

20

Eccentric Man

Sorry, another self-pitying rant again... Not meaning to be arogant but im a pretty sound chap, funny, easy-going, enjoyable company etc, dont think im that ugly... everyone tells me how easy-going i am........ BUT, i'm 19 and I don't think a girl has ever been attracted to me... Im just trying to get over my feelings for my best mate who just gave me an honest n touching rejection, clearly telling me our friendship rules. BUT, every girl who rejects me says 'ur a great guy', but WHY am i just incapable of turning a woman on? I don't think i ever have... ok, i have cerebral palsy, but all my pals tell me they dont see it coz im a kl mate; but WHY can't I just turn a girl on. EVERY rejection i've had seems to follow the lines of 'ur a rly sound n cool guy, but...' WHY can't someone tell me 'UR A BASTARD, BUT I WANNA **** UR BRAINS OUT!'??

Do you know any girls with cerebral palsy?

Reply 3

goodmen

13

you need to stop being self pitiful. who likes someone whose sulking

Reply 4

Talya

16

Stop looking for women. If you hit on every woman you know they will just get freaked out.

I am sure there is someone out there for you and you are still young. Just give it time.

Reply 5

evil groove

Lol...

Why don't you try chatting up a girl who hasn't previously been your friend? I for one can't imagine myself being sexually attracted to my guy mates simply because I know so much about them through having known them for 7+ years. You'll be more mysterious to people who don't know you.

Also, if you're looking for a girlfriend, you musn't (initially) treat her identically to how you would your friends that are girls; you have to make a lot more effort.

Reply 6

Eccentric Man

OP

8

Schokis

Lol...

Why don't you try chatting up a girl who hasn't previously been your friend? Coz then we'll no doubt be in a noisey situation where she'll struggle understanding me :frown:

Reply 7

evil groove

Avoid noisy situations? Don't look for problems, look for solutions :smile:

Reply 8

goodLife

Eccentric Man

Coz then we'll no doubt be in a noisey situation where she'll struggle understanding me :frown:

Your not alone im a 21 year still virgin who has never really had any luck with guys :frown:

its probably a mixture of confidence, being in the minority of what people find attractive and bad luck.

Reply 9

Riddy

If thats you in the profile Id say the middle factor, seriously OP most guys worry about things like this your not alone. Keep looking and having fun.

Reply 10

Eccentric Man

OP

8

Riddy

If thats you in the profile Id say the middle factor

What do you mean by that??

pic is 3 yrs old btw

Reply 11

Riddy

Eccentric Man

What do you mean by that??

pic is 3 yrs old btw

lol I wasn't referring to you I meant goodlife.

Reply 12

Eccentric Man

OP

8

Riddy

lol I wasn't referring to you I meant goodlife.

Tired... 10 hrs til essay deadline... hardly started... please be simple, cannot comprehend :confused:

Reply 13

hotfuzz

^ditto.
What's middle factor?

Reply 14

saturn

This happens to most guys, they wonder what is wrong with them and its usually just they haven't met the right girl, try joining more societies.

Reply 15

hotfuzz

Oops. Took too long in replying.

Reply 16

Sunofnight

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hotfuzz

^ditto.
What's middle factor?

I think he was replying to goodlifes post, nothing hard to understand about it, but he is harsh.

Reply 17

hotfuzz

For anyone (like me) who didn't know: cerebral palsy.

Reply 18

bone-machine

9

19th still very young, i know its frustrating but wait it out..the likely hood is that you just get yourself into the 'friend zone' and cant get out so dont convince yourself that you are the problem..your time will come

Reply 19

db

17

anyone who calls themself a legend deserves to be single. I also like the tried and tested, 'not that I'm arrogant but..arrogant comment', line.

Like other have said, if you stop worrying about it so much it'll most likely fall into place, the more you think about the situation the worse it will seem. What's the rush for a gf anyway?

Great guy/legend/funny....... but yet...

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