Frustrating guy problem

Really like this guy but haven't seen him in ages, online he told me he really liked me and complimented me loads etc but then said his net was really crappy so msn wouldn't work properly so instead i emailed him saying hi howru etc and i checked my sent items and it said he had read it but not replied so today i emailed saying not sure if u got my last message but message me when ur free and i checked sent items and yet again his messaged but not replied.. what's going on???

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

OP

*yet again he's read it but not replied.

Reply 2

fairycakes

12

go and do somethingo else for a while. if ure like this before u start anthingo with him, what are u gonna be like when u actually start going out with him? calm down a bit. maybe he's busy, and not had a chance to reply?
go do something else that u would have done before u met this guy!
xxxx

Reply 3

shavenwookiee

6

How do you know if he's read it if its email?

Reply 4

hotfuzz

You can get a comfirmation of reading sent to you.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Does the fact i check if he's read it make me really stalkerish?

Reply 6

hotfuzz

A bit, but not really. Just shows you're interested.

Reply 7

Flank Runner

stalkerish, real stalkerish, just give it time

Reply 8

Yoda

12

Leave him for a bit. If it was me, I'd be pretty pissed you wouldn't leave me alone. I've got more interesting things than just you in my life. Leave him for a week or two, pretend you have your own life, then get back to him. A little less annoying next time.

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

Really like this guy but haven't seen him in ages, online he told me he really liked me and complimented me loads etc but then said his net was really crappy so msn wouldn't work properly so instead i emailed him saying hi howru etc and i checked my sent items and it said he had read it but not replied so today i emailed saying not sure if u got my last message but message me when ur free and i checked sent items and yet again his messaged but not replied.. what's going on???

Wow this sounds strangely similar to a situation I'm going through. It's been nearly a month since I've heard a word :rolleyes:

. I just think you need to give it time. As others have said he might be busy and just hasn't got round to replying yet. I can be quite bad at replying to messages sometimes too but I always get round to them at some point. Don't worry about it OP. BTW has he replied yet? :smile:

Reply 10

username47781

20

Yeah give him a chance as someone else said if you are like this now what you gonna be like being actually with him. You need to give him a bit of space.

Reply 11

Fleece

15

Sheesh, back off a bit.

He's either not replying because a) He got distracted/has something else to do/is busy

or

b) He doesn't want to.

In any case, if he wants to reply to you, he will, and you sending more emails pestering him isn't going to make that any more likely.

Reply 12

Dragon24

17

Cliginess is an unattractive quality, he is probably playing it cool which is what you should do. Let him make the next move.

Reply 13

Tyler Durden

17

Anonymous

Really like this guy but haven't seen him in ages, online he told me he really liked me and complimented me loads etc but then said his net was really crappy so msn wouldn't work properly so instead i emailed him saying hi howru etc and i checked my sent items and it said he had read it but not replied so today i emailed saying not sure if u got my last message but message me when ur free and i checked sent items and yet again his messaged but not replied.. what's going on???

Honestly, if you want to get with the guy then back off him. A girl showing too much interest is so off-putting (unless you're head over heels for her anyway). Ignore him a bit, make him wait for replies. At the same time don't seem totally uninterested. It's a fine balance, but at the moment you're seeming way too keen.

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