Let her go...

basically, there is a girl who i met last september. We got really close quite quickly and we've been through quite a bit - she was suffering from a confidence crisis which she broke down over completely and i stood by her then and now, im getting treatment for clinical depression and she's helping me in the day to day...

Last month, i told her i really liked her and she said that she 'thinks we're more than just friends' but that she cant be with me because of her parents. Now the thing is, i still really like her BUT she was sort of getting close with another boy when i told her that i liked her and as far as i can see, she still really likes him...

So. Should i just give it up and let her go? Because i care for her a lot and it really hurts that she doesnt seem to care back...

Reply 1

Louise88

She said last month that she couldn't be with you because of her parents, that wont have changed this month. She still wont be able to be with you if that is the case so i'm afraid that you are going to have to move on.

I know how difficult moving on is, and it's going to take some time but you deserve to be with someone who you can be with and who feels the same in return. I don't want to make this girl sound terrible but the thing about her parents might just have been a way of letting you down gently because of this other boy. We honestly don't know why she can't be with you, how she feels for you and how she feels for this boy but you deserve better than being left just hanging around.