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don't know whats happening, where I stand, and regretting it! HELP

I've known this guy for about 6 months now, and we recently got closer, and I kissed him 2 days ago, and then stayed over at his place..but we didn't do nothing other than kiss. All my friends were suprised cos i've been single for like agess and wouldn't normally do that, but I only did it cos I actually like him, and the signal I got was that he liked me to.
But the next morning, it felt soooo awkward..I didn't know what to do/say. I haven't talked to him since this happened..I rang him and told him i need to talk to him but he was with friends so i was like call me when your free cos whenever i ring your always busy, and he said he'll call me tomorrow or monday. but he doesn't seem bothered, and it seems like he is tryna avoid me.
I kind of regret doing what i did now, cos i feel kind of used :s-smilie: as i'm trying to make an effort and hes not. Also, hes not the type of guy to just randomly pull girls, that why this suprised me even more. what do you think hes thinking? cos i've tried asking him, but he was busy so i'm gna wait for him to call me now.
but do you think he is regretting it? or just needs time..i have no idea!:frown::frown:any advice would be great. thanks

Reply 1

btw...note he hasn't actually called me since this happened, I txt him and called him a few times and he didn't return my calls!

Reply 2

Oh well, at least you didn't sleep with him. Some guys like the thrill of the chase and then get bored after that. It's only a few kisses, no big deal. My advice, stop stressing and let him come to you. If he doesn't then he's probably not worth your time.

Reply 3

yeh i gues so, i'm going to wait for him now, but i got this feeling he ain't going to come to me..