same problem, sometimes i think they really stand out but other times i dont notice them, i think when you see an imperfection (not saying it is btw) and you keep looking at it and you know its there you make it seem worse...like when your wearing a nice top and you think one boob looks stupidly bigger than the other in it, its only you that notices, nobody in public does unless u point it out. Try not to focus on it and forget its there, and it shouldn't be an issue. Tell guys is so they can find ur nipple lol, that should go down a treat