My boyfriend IS cheating on me

OP

I know its bad i read his messages but I would never have known, Ive confronted him before and he said he just went to "talk" but I cant believe him now. but what do I do about leaving?

Reply 3

Ask him about it and see what he says.

If it was me I'd "suddenly decide to stay and see what his reaction is. Men are bastards.

Reply 4

OP

but if i stay, he will be cheating on me and sleeping in the same bed as me? how does that work, what if he denys it?

Reply 5

Stay at a friends house instead and spy on him. If you catch him cheating then cut off his man bits.

Reply 6

you said you are not 100% sure, you would have to catch him? if you question him about it and he denies it you will get no where

anyway trust is important, and if you have no trust i see no point in you staying in a relationship. even if he is not cheating the relationship is not working. End it? explain your circumstances more?

Reply 7

BTW I know my answers arn't very practical and are childish but I really don't know what I'd do. I hate the thought of my boyfriend cheating on me. I'm already paranoid he's out in Chester getting felt up by some skanky bitch.

Reply 8

oooooooooo women can be just as bad, off topic i know but i just wanted to make this clear

Reply 9

OP

what else do you want to know about my circumstances?
Im livng in warrington, my parents live in lincolnshire i dont think I have anyone to stay with... I have only recently moved here... hes away all next week so I can most likeley use that time to pack my things

Reply 10

Oh definitely. I think women can probably be worse...well going off some of the girls I know anyway.

Reply 11

OP

hey hey, help me out guys!

Reply 12

Gaylee

what else do you want to know about my circumstances?
Im livng in warrington, my parents live in lincolnshire i dont think I have anyone to stay with... I have only recently moved here... hes away all next week so I can most likeley use that time to pack my things

Have you any more reason to think he's cheating besides this message? Could it not be a friend he's planning to meet when he knows he not spending time with you?

I really think you should talk it through before you move out. Do you have anywhere else to go or would you go back to your parents?

Reply 13

CheesyBeans

Ask him about it and see what he says.

If it was me I'd "suddenly decide to stay and see what his reaction is. Men are bastards.

you are dependant on him? you could not move back in with your parents at least temporarily ? The relationship is not working , that is clear enough, does he know something is wrong, does he just shrug the accusations off as if they are not serious? does he respect you?

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

I know the feeling, OP, and I really feel for you :frown:

Why don't you sit down with him and just have a general chat about your relationship? Ask him if he's still happy with you because his behaviour is making you think otherwise.

Reply 15

OP

Ok well lastweekend I confronted him about it all, and he said he was not happy, but that he had not cheated on me and that he still thought we had a future together,
I dont know why I am so concerend, he said he has lied to me 10 times before. maybe hes not sleeping with this girl but he is meeting her without me knowing... even his mum says hes a lier!

Reply 16

Gaylee

Ok well lastweekend I confronted him about it all, and he said he was not happy, but that he had not cheated on me and that he still thought we had a future together,

Are you happy with him? I know you have doubts about him but do you actually want to stay with him or is this all about how to get away from it all?

Reply 17

OP

I think I know its time to leave, but Im really scared. I cant afford to live on my own and If I go home Ill have to leave my job here...

Reply 18

Melissa85

I was in a similar situation and when i looked back i blew it coz i acted rash.

You have to buy your time act normal, and then catch him in the act. It's tough but you'll get your truth and revenge at the same time if your right and you'll know to leave him and never look back.

Good luck girl

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