My boobs are uneven :(

I didn't notice until recently but one of my breasts is slightly smaller than the other one. I can really notice the difference now and I know it's just me being vain but I'm a bit down about it because my boobs have always been my best asset.

I don't really know what the point of this thread is but I just felt the need to vent a little and see if maybe anyone else has the same problem.

Reply 1

Thud

17

i can pretty much guarantee that you are the only person in the world who will ever notice that. :smile:

Reply 2

L0RA

9

Its very common and its really nothing to worry about. If you're still a teenager theres a chance they'll even out especially if theres a big difference though from your post it doesnt sound like there is.

Learn to love the body you have cause its the only one you're going to get :smile:

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

Sorry about being anonymous by the way, I know quite a few people from my uni who post here and thought if they saw me posting they'll end up staring at my chest from now on!

The thing is, I'm 19, so unfortunately I don't think there will be any change in my breasts :frown:

I think the difference shows up more because I have relatively large breasts (34D).

Yes, I'm probably the only person who will notice but I told my boyfriend the other day (I don't know why) and after staring hard at them for a minute or so he said "oh yeah, I see". He doesn't care, he's just happy he's got a pair of boobs to play with. I really shouldn't have bothered to say anything! I'm just the sort of person who doesn't have much self confidence so little things like this affect me.

Reply 4

ßlαcksωαn

17

It's totally normal. The body is not exactly symmetrical.

Reply 5

King Hippo

9

I know I'm not the greatest expert on the matter given my gender, but I hung about with a lot of girl mates at Uni and it became clear to me that this happens with loads of girls and is definitely not irregular.

That's just the way we're made. No two baps are the same size, ever. Even ones that look the same are out by a few millimetres. They're two seperate body parts, you know? So don't worry about it. Just be glad that they're big enough that you can even judge if there's a difference. :smile:

Reply 6

loopymeg

13

Yup, completely normal! So don't worry about it, and continue loving your assets!

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks for the replies everyone :smile:

I realise I'm being insecure for a silly reason so thanks for the reassurance.

Reply 8

Gem

14

Nobody has exactly the same size boobs. Girls generaly have one slightly more bigger than the other, and that's perfectly normal.

I doubt that ANYONE else will notice it! Please don't worry.

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

Mine are one cup-size differnt from each other, it's really annoying when buying bras because do I go for the bigger one and the other looks tiny, or the smaller one with the bigger one bulging over the top? So, yeah, completely normal.

Reply 10

sssh

10

Thud

i can pretty much guarantee that you are the only person in the world who will ever notice that. :smile:

This, and apparently everyone (well, everyone with breasts i.e. women and fat men) has this problem. I didn't even think about it until recently either, but apparently mine are unneven. The bra measurer at M&S just came out with "...and since the right is a little bigger than the left...", which left me surprised! I'd never noticed, and still haven't...I was a bit worried for a few days, but no-one's ever going to notice, so I figured it doesn't really matter.

Reply 11

Schroedinger's Pandora

13

Yeah. At school boys used to call me "boob and a half", because one sprouted wheras of course the other one didn't. :rolleyes:

It's all just yet another joy of womanhood I'm afraid to say; who would have thought that periods, hormone fluctuations, PMT, pregnancy & general runing of the body that comes with it, giving birth, sore boobs, sitting down for a wee, dicrimination and pressure to be thin weren't enough. No. We get wonky tits too.

Don't worry hun, most of us have been there at one time or another.

Reply 12

Louise88

It's perfectly normal. Mine aren't the same size, I can notice a difference but my boyfriend has never noticed lol don't worry about it though, most girls are the same.

Reply 13

Enchanté

14

You're probably notice it more in yourself than someone else will! :p:

Just try not to be so conicious about it then you won't think anything of it. :smile:

Like everyone else said tis normal.

Reply 14

jennyflake

According to someone I know, its a sign of how much testosterone you got in the womb...or at least is possibly. If your left breast is bigger then it means one thing, if the right is bigger it means the other...so its one hundred per cent perfectly normal. If it makes all the girls feel better the guys also suffer too...their testes are meant to be different sizes (like the girls either the left or the right is bigger) depending upon the level of testosterone they were given in the womb!

Reply 15

bunthulhu

14

Totally normal. I know I'm the same, and I used to whinge about it with my ex, who thought I was barmy - he didn't see it at all. Basically, despite what men are like, noone is going to pay as much attention to your boobs as you, so you're really the only one who'll notice.

Reply 16

Segat1

16

I have one bigger than the other. Its a fun game to play with your boyfriend - guess which is bigger by feel than sight.

Reply 17

shona

10

Sweetie, everyone's boobs are different sizes. We're not built totally symmetrical. Chances are, you'll be able to tell the difference, but no one else will be able to. If you trust someone enough to let them see that part of your body, you should trust them enough not to be a moron and make an issue of it.

You're perfectly normal, you have a boyfriend who clearly likes the way you look... so be happy. :smile:

Reply 18

Anonymous #3

Anonymous

Mine are one cup-size differnt from each other, it's really annoying when buying bras because do I go for the bigger one and the other looks tiny, or the smaller one with the bigger one bulging over the top? So, yeah, completely normal.

:dito:
Me too!! a whole cup size! Bra shopping is very stressful... :frown:

Reply 19

Anonymous #4

Anonymous

:dito:
Me too!! a whole cup size! Bra shopping is very stressful... :frown:

Me too!!! Except with me it's more like 2 cup sizes and very obvios and embarrassing. I have to pad one side ... :redface:

My boobs are uneven :(

Related discussions

Articles for you