hate kissing?

Anyone else not really enjoy kissing? or am i just a freak lol? ive never really seen the fuss about kissing and never found it a very pleasant/enjoyable experience, and i ive tried with different guys, not once have i really liked it. Is that weird?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

To be honest, I haven't enjoyed a single kiss I've had yet, and I've had 3 boyfriends and pulled people in clubs, etc. I think you need to really fancy the person, because when I think about kissing this guy who I've had a huge crush on for years, I get butterflies, etc and once I even went literally weak at the knees! I think if you really care about someone and find them really attractive, just being close to them will turn you on and you'll naturally enjoy kissing them. You just need to find the right person. I haven't had the chance yet, unfortunately :frown:

Also, maybe the people you kissed were crap :p:

Reply 2

Louise88

I love kissing, kissing is great. The only thing is, i'm not a huge fan of the use of tongues, it's just not my thing. I always feel the need to pull away at that point, it's just not something I really enjoy. Kissing is general is amazing though...

I don't think it's strange, some people really enjoy it, some people don't. Just because you don't enjoy something, doesn't mean you are a freak.

Reply 3

Yellowmarshmellow

I didn't used to like kissing but with my ex bf (because i really liked him) the whole kissing thing was alot nicer... guess if you like the person alot then it's a much nice experience lol.

Reply 4

L0RA

9

Everyones different, i love kissing with the right person.

Best kiss has to be with the ugliest guy i've ever got with, in a club on my 19th Birthday, we went on to be friends but he was never going to be boyfriend material. For the first thing, he was shorter than me!

Have had a fair few awful kisses but the vast majority have been good, have to say i could never get into a relationship with someone that was a bad kisser or that had no potential. :eek:

Reply 5

Louise88

I completely agree. Kissing someone you have feelings for is ten times better than someone you don't...

Reply 6

Elanor_Gamgee

Louise88

I love kissing, kissing is great. The only thing is, i'm not a huge fan of the use of tongues, it's just not my thing. I always feel the need to pull away at that point, it's just not something I really enjoy. Kissing is general is amazing though...

I don't think it's strange, some people really enjoy it, some people don't. Just because you don't enjoy something, doesn't mean you are a freak.

me neither! lol

Reply 7

becky xxx

2

I love kissing sooooo much, its my favourite thing!!!!!

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Hmm yeah that does make sense, but the thing is I do have feelings for the guys i kiss, i just think its all a bit icky lol, ah well never mind! :smile:

Reply 9

Profesh

20

Anonymous

I think you need to really fancy the person, because when I think about kissing this guy who I've had a huge crush on for years, I get butterflies, etc and once I even went literally weak at the knees! I think if you really care about someone and find them really attractive, just being close to them will turn you on and you'll naturally enjoy kissing them. You just need to find the right person. I haven't had the chance yet, unfortunately :frown:

Also, maybe the people you kissed were crap :p:

I concur.

Reply 10

Lex Talionis

10

I always find kissing a bit erm... wet.

Reply 11

stoney

12

omg am I the only person that thinks it rocks?

Reply 12

Sephrenia

16

stoney

omg am I the only person that thinks it rocks?

No I think it rocks as well mm kissing :love:

Reply 13

Justintabib

11

becky xxx

I love kissing sooooo much, its my favourite thing!!!!!

*throws a kiss at becky xxx* :wink:

It actually depends on two things: 1) whether the person you are kissing is a good kisser 2) whether you have feelings for the guy.

However, 2) does not necessarily make you like kissing if 1) is absent. Some people are so awful at kissing that kissing becomes more like licking like a dog.
But even if you do not have feelings for the guy, if the person is a good kisser and it is the right place and time, you will love it. Trust me on this. :smile:

Reply 14

Anonymous #3

i need to kiss someone soon!

on my easter break hopefully, it doesn't seem to happen at uni for me! :frown:

Reply 15

arabellaweir

7

Well I have never kissed someone I didnt like so maybe that's why kissing in my eyes is so great? :biggrin:

I think kissing someone you know really well and thus are not thinking 'omg does he think I am kissing him well?!' and **** like that is better than the whole first kissiness.

I read somewhere that if you're enjoying it then other person will be too so I guess it might work the other way around also. Maybe you should talk to the person you're kissing if you're really not liking it.. Try another technique.. Kissing its fab and you should find that out somehow soon!

Reply 16

Justintabib

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Anonymous

i need to kiss someone soon!

on my easter break hopefully, it doesn't seem to happen at uni for me! :frown:

why doesn't happen at uni?! I thought uni is the haven for kissing and snogging, especially during friday nights.

Are you a guy or a girl? For a girl, it is a child's play.

Reply 17

Anonymous #3

nope, not exactly a haven! i've just never found a person at uni i wanna kiss. they're all waiting for me in my hometown :p:

i'm a girl..

Reply 18

Justintabib

11

Anonymous

nope, not exactly a haven! i've just never found a person at uni i wanna kiss. they're all waiting for me in my hometown :p:

i'm a girl..

then you should try my uni for a change :wink:

.
And "they" are waiting in your hometown? Gosh, you are lucky :biggrin:

What do you look for in a guy to 'kiss him'? Just curious ... :wink:

Reply 19

grace

15

kissing is amazing if its...erm...lippy...as opposed to someone shoving their tongue down your throat.

tongues need to be kept at a minimal here people.

agreed with the people who say kissing is a million times better if you care for the person, i've been kissing my bf for over a year and still get butterflies when he kisses me :smile:

even (perhaps especially) if it's just a little peck on the tip of my nose, just the way he does it :smile:

i miss him :frown:

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