is he right to be angry at me?

sorry if this is really long & confusing, but it's really irritating me.

my best friend & i had a fight on wednesday, & pretty much haven't spoken since then. but i don't think it's my fault at all!

it was for two reasons really. he wants me to go with him to get his tattoo. which would mean missing an afternoon of school. i said i might but i dont have that much money atm & we need to get the train, & my parents wouldnt be too happy with me not going to lessons. so i said i'd go when he for the second part of it. he got really angry & said i HAD to go that time because he's taking the girl he fancies the second time & she wouldnt be allowed to go the first time for the same reasons as me. so why is it alright for me to get into trouble for him but not her??

he then reminded me we're going to a gig on thursday, which i'd casually mentioned we go to a while back, he said "yeah we should" but i'd never told him i had tickets to it, or even mentioned it further. then he got even more angry & started telling me how he'd passed up working because we were going & acting like i'd lied to him or something. but he hadnt brought it up before & i'd never said i had ticket!

i don't want to apologise, as i really don't think i've done much wrong here! & i hate fighting with him, cause he's my best friend.

any suggestions?
ta. x

Reply 1

booraad

Tell him he's overreacting and that there's no evidence of definite plans having been made. He's sounds like he's on his period?

Reply 2

Trigger

tell him he has to be 18 to get a tattoo not 11

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

uh huh, some kind of constant boy period atm!
grrr.
but thanks, those replies made me laugh :smile:

Reply 4

TheShrimp

Argh DO NOT miss school for your friend to get his tatoo. If he's too scared/whatever to go by himself to get it, should he really be getting it done in the first place? Tell him your parents won't let you go & they'll know if you're skipping school.

Reply 5

username47781

Yeah he is going over the top a bit surely.

Reply 6

vithuran

eat him

Cannibalism may be greatly frowned upon in todays society, but sometimes it canbe a great way of teaching someone a lesson!

Reply 7

booraad

What manner of cooking do you recommend? I find human bean a bit chewy.

Reply 8

vithuran

let them stew in their own juice, it brings out the flavour. you chould always go for the ones that do less excercise, their muscles are less toned, gets over the chewiness problem you see.