The most confusing love triangle - Desperate Help Needed!

Hey everyone, I have a major problem. I used to go out with this guy for around 10 months and he was always really horrible to me, but I loved him nonetheless. I don't know why because all my friends said I could do better and he really did treat me the worst but something stopped me from ever leaving him. He broke up with me around December time but we don't act like it because we still hang around together, although he's constantly moody with me and still treats me horribly.

Now it gets more complicated...his best friend says he's always had feelings for me and he finally plucked up the courage to ask me out. I went on a date with him yesterday and we had a really good time and I felt a spark. My ex-boyfriend however says that he wants me back (he doesn't know I went on a date with his best mate), he's full of crap a lot of time but I do believe him. I still like him...but I also like his best friend...I like them both. What do I do???

Please help me
xx

Reply 1

username47781

I would never go back to your ex whatever you do.

Reply 2

Ariadne

Go for the best friend. Your ex sounds like he's giving you the complete run around, and if you take him back this time he'll get the idea that he can get away with it again.

Reply 3

La Trampa

best friend,don't be a stupid fool twice

Reply 4

rosetinted

How is it confusing? Your ex has always treated you like crap and wants get back together with you. How much of a ****ing masochist are you? You've already let him treat you like garbage for 10 months. You'd have to be an absolute gibbering moron to actually be puzzling over whether to be with a tosser or someone else.

Reply 5

Juwel

Your ex won't change. Give it up.

Reply 6

NothernPompey

i hear a threesome. haha only joking. i would leave it, dont go back to your ex caus he sounds like a total d**k, dnt go with his best friend as you would start to stir things up between them and you would still have to spend time with ya ex if ya go with his best mate( if ya get me). this has happened to me before, 2 of my mates 1 went out with this girl treated her like **** then finished her then the other mate went out with her and it all ended in a fight and i mean a fight, blood and everything

Reply 7

NothernPompey

haha thats a bit harsh, she came here for advice no need to be horrible. tut tut

Reply 8

lazyswot

Go for the best friend. I could say all the reasons why you shouldn't get back with your ex but I think you'll be able to work them out for yourself :smile:

Plus, I think the fact that his best friend has liked you for ages and finally has the chance to tell you is rather romantic.

Reply 9

La Trampa

i don't think she can work that out...she made this thread

Reply 10

Mike_Davies

Hell don't get back with your ex lol! Get with the new guy if your going to get with either not sure what he is like but judging by the description he is somewhat nicer! However if you do get back with the ex when he starts being nasty to you start beating him about and show him who is boss :biggrin:

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